Why does he flirt with other girls except me?
their is this boy whos 15 and im 14 ive fancied him for a long time and we are good mates and everything but im shy of him and hes shy of me because he knows i fancy him and he seems to get embarrassed he flirts with other girls except me i mean he talks to me and helps me with stuff but when we are alone he doesnt talk to me if i see h walking on the way to school he looks allover the play he actually smiled at me for along time once, i kind of made a mistake by telling everyone i fancy him and everyone says hes not worth it that he doesnt like me in that way and he will never like me in that way, if i speak to him on msn sometimes he speaks to me and sometimes he goes offline we find it hard to talk to each other and he hardly speaks but hes nice if i say hi to him he will say hi back and when he sees me he doesnt usually smile that much, i dont know what to do should i move on because its reall hard for m to ask him out or do you think he fancies me or hes shy or not advice me pl
2007-03-01 21:25:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be honest i would move on. If he knows you like him hes had plenty of chance to ask you out or do something back. It sounds to me like he likes you as a friend but thats it. I think he wont flirt with you because he dos'nt want to give you the wrong impression and lead you on. I would'nt waste anymore time on him if i was you, your find someone else to like eventually. Oh and you never know as soon as he sees your not interested he may be more friendlier to you as he wont see you as a threat.
2007-03-01 21:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may like you and be flattered by your attention but 15 year old boys are also really self conscious, especially when their mates are around. I know it's hard as he probably consumes your every waking moment but try cooling off for a while, be pleasant but drop the MSN and asking for help for a while. If he's interested this will be the wake up he needs to do something positive. If not, you will have lost less including your dignity. Distancing yourself from him will give you a chance to touch base with your friends who ultimately will probably be there for you in the long term.
2007-03-02 05:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take the first move here. When you are next alone with him, tell him how you feel when he is near you. Tell him how wonderful he makes you feel when he smiles at you.
Tell him everything about it and ask him how he feels about you.
It won't do any harm.
If he doesn't feel the same way, there is no harm done and it's HIS loss. I would be sooo flattered if a pretty girl said it to me.
All my hopes
Marcus
2007-03-02 05:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by The Alchemist 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, move on and soon you will feel more comfortable around him and he, you..What is more attractive then a girl with a guy? This may help out your situation, when he sees you aren't hooked on him, because you will look even more attractive to him....even /especially if you go out with someone else...
Good luck and don't stress about it anymore...
2007-03-02 05:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"treat them mean keep them keen"
try ignoring him completely and i recon he'll come running to see why your ignoring him.then you just tell him straight "i fancy you but your not interested in me so this is how i'm dealing with it!"
and i think you'll be surprised by his reaction.
plus he may think he's not in your league and your to good for him!
communication! if your not sure ask him not your mates or his mates,HIM !
2007-03-02 05:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by tomski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy to talk to you, then I think he might really like you! Take it slow with him, build up his confidence in you and THEN make your move. If he really isn't interested move on.
2007-03-02 05:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kayle xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋