wife having an affair moved in with him i have the children living with me will she come back for the children
2007-03-01 21:10:54 · 19 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have started divorce proceddings and have got a prohibited steps order stopping her taking them from my care without my permission also i have let her have contact but at the marrital home i share with the children on sundays between 2 and 4 but she dosnt come? i have been there main carer for 3 years now and she wants to take that all from me becauce she wants all of them and leave me with nothing
2007-03-02 02:43:52 · update #1
my children want to stay with me and dont want to go with there mother they are young children ages 16.8.and twins aged 7
2007-03-03 22:25:06 · update #2
I cannot imagine what type of a woman would leave her children. Im sorry, I just can't see why you would even want her back.
2007-03-01 21:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by looby 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What kind of woman would leave her OWN children for another man? Cheating is one character flaw that can be overlooked, but can you honestly say you could look at her the same way knowing she had the capacity to walk out on her own children? I dont condone divorce and am acutally forgiving my husband for an affair at the moment, but what your wife has done is a double whammy. I'd say file for the divorce and try to proove she abandoned her kids and go for full custody. Your wife doesnt deserve you or her children.
2007-03-02 02:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your wife, if she's one of those type of people that put her children first and will do anything for them then she may come back just for the sake of the kids. However, would you want a wife who's only with you because you two have children together.
2007-03-01 21:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by little lamb 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course they do! It all depends on what kind of person you are and how strong the new relationship is. Although more unusual some women do leave their children. Do you want her to come back?! I have children myself and can not imagine leaving them, also can not understand why fathers leave their children! We are all different and have different needs so hard to answer your question. I think you need to be asking what it is you want yourself and what is best for your children. Good luck
2007-03-01 21:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
affairs are extremely selfish and anyone who would bother to bring a child into the world, then have an affair, instead of trying to work it out, or get divorced is very full of themselves. what's the point of having children then cheating on your partner. This does not make that person a good role model. it also really depends on the childs age, but it's still not good
2007-03-01 21:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥~mama-to-be~♥~ 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry, but judging by the questions you are putting up this morning, you wife sounds like a selfish b!tch. any woman that would leave her kids behind like this is not even worthy of being called a mother. you and your kids should move on and try to be happy again. don't have her back and she will be the one that is heartbroken when her kids don't want to know her because she walked out on them and you. but she's made her bed so she should lie in it. you are best off without her.
2007-03-01 21:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is an affair to start with I assure you kids are a factor to the other person in terms whether or not to stop the affair. Clearly this person isn't even thinking of the kids. If they were... there would not be an affair to start with.
2007-03-01 21:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by blazinwulf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear, what you want to watch out for is not that she'll come back for the children, but that she'll come and take them. The law is very unfair to fathers on this. Get yourself some legal advice now and start custody proceedings. Forewarned is forearmed.
2007-03-01 21:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by clio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might, but why would you want her to? She obviously has no respect for you. Do you think that's a good role model to set before your kids? I don't mean her specifically - I mean the two of you as a couple. How could the two of you set a good example of a happily married couple?
You'd be better off trying to arrange shared custody so that your kids can see their mom.
2007-03-01 21:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by J F 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an awful situation. Make sure the children feel as much love as possible.
2007-03-01 21:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Cassidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋