A guy at uni seems to like me he flirted with me like staring at me and touching my hands. I knew he had a girlfriend so I didn't ask him out. He seems to like me but it looks as if he's shy around me even tho he's married so why did he get married if he has feelings for me?
2007-03-01 21:03:51 · 21 answers · asked by Unknown princess 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I never feel hurt by this guy and am just wondering if he liked me or not...My feelings for him were not strong and I don't care if he's married or not cos I was not really his friend. I am not interested in him now I asked because I'm really bored...
2007-03-01 21:44:38 · update #1
he's just stringing you along and as for the marriage thing, maybe he's trying to make you jealous? next time you see him, tell him to grow up coz by the sounds of things he really needs to
2007-03-02 08:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes to keep his options open even tho he's got a wife. My exhus did that, when it came to me throwing him out he came straight back. This guy just wants the comfort of getting his bit on the side whilst knowing he's got home comforts if it all goes wrong. You are just a nice fantasy to keep him from being bored. Do you want to just be eye-candy or to be loved? I think you should steer clear of the guy, you felt confused and hurt enough to need to ask about the situation, then you must have known it was wrong. You now have reassurance from all us ladies, ignore him! Go put your efforts into someone that will return your feelings!
2007-03-01 21:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by ~Kitana~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!
This guy is obviously a player. He probably loves his wife and all of his girlfriends in his own warped way, but the best thing to do is to realise that most guys like him have an overactive sex sonar that goes off when any pretty girl shows an interest. I think you should stop questioning why he's got married if he likes you. I think you should ask yourself whats a girl like me doing considering a slimeball like him?!!
2007-03-01 21:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by jayannepepper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like they cant work us out, i dont even try and bother to work them out either. There is no point. Just dont bite the bate. He has a girlfriend, you KNOW he has a girlfriend, so make him show you some respect. But really, he is married now, he chose his bed, you gotta have some respect for yourself and dont flirt with this boy. He is a slim ball, well he sounds like one as he has a wife and he is tryna get into your knickers!! Dont give him the satisfaction of feeling like a king !
2007-03-01 21:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall from him. He's a bad, screwed up guy. Don't you see, he's about 2 cheat on his wife. And I'm sure you don't want to be "The Other Woman". I mean how would you fee' if you're husband or boyfriend cheated on you. If he's flirting with other women, he's not loyal 2 his wife, and he doesn't love her. He wants 2 have many women. STAY AWAY from him, tell him, "I don't ant 2 be involved with you cuz you have a wife, and if you married her for love, you don't want 2 hurt her. And if you married her just bcuz for another reason than love, than he's playing her. i repeat STAY AWAY from him.
2007-03-01 22:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because his feelings 4 u were not strong enough. Try to remember he's not the one 4 u even he still has feelings 4 u he proab ly regrets that he got married
2007-03-01 22:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rachelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did like you, but didn't think you were marriage material. Some guys flirt with girls but have no intention of taking it any further, it's just a bit of fun for them. The girl he married was obviously on a whole other level for him.
2007-03-02 00:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Victoria of Port 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes his cake and eat it. He is married and has a wife at home with all the comfort that brings, but he also thinks that he has carte blanche to flirt with you as well. Leave well alone if you ask me.
2007-03-01 21:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by pixienaefaebanff 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because he likes flirting and the attention it gets him and the buzz it gives him. Don't bother to read anything more into it just feel sorry for his wife that she has married such an inconsiderate creep.
2007-03-01 22:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke the touch barrier, and you are lacking esteem. He liked you, tested the waters and by you not chasing after him he went with a sure thing by getting married.
2007-03-01 21:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Reva Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋