How do you "fight back" against your enemy?

Question

This girl came up to me and cussed her head off and her friends ostracized me. Now my friends are getting closer to her and anyways i wanna put something really bad on here website to show her not to mess with me because she wrote really bad stuff on mine. Any ideas? Opinions? Suggestions? please helpp..

thanks for everyone who answered this.

and keep on answering i will see all the answers even if theyre 100 people who answer this.

and how can i make her stop cussing at me?

Answer 1

It's better not to stoop to her level... it's just better to show who's the classy one here... you'll come out the winner

Answer 2

Sounds like you have been targeted as an easy victim. Possibly, this girl is trying to raise her social status and by bullying you, she hopes to achieve this. It isn't too different from people in Prison! I highly recommend Jujitsu martial arts!!!!! Don't take it to attack her, but take it so that if someone attacks you, you can completely humiliate them. Jujitsu was developed in Japan and it's focus is to use your hands to put your enemy on the ground in a humiliating manner. Some of the moves we study is to trap a person's arm or wrist and throw them across the floor. It amazing to do it! I love Jujitsu! I've taken other martial arts, but by far Jujitsu is the most awesome.
for some reason, the spell checker doesn't like the spelling I prefer... I study Japanese Jujutsu.
Women are very successful as well, so don't feel like it's just a guy thing.

Now, after having said all that, you need to inform your parents, your school admistration, and even the police of this bully. There are new anti-bully laws all over the country.
If this girl harms you, you can actually press charges against her parents. There's even a chance that if the girl harms you, the parents could wind up in jail! Ironic, isn't it?
But, if you harm the girl, even if she attacks you, you and your parents could wind up with a criminal record. So the only way to protect yourself from being sued or incarserated is to notify all the proper authorities, have some documentation that this bully is targeting you, have some friends as witnesses all the time, and try to avoid this girl. If you can prove all this and you kick her butt and you accidentally hurt her, you might have a good case of self defense.
Good luck and please notify all the RIGHT people.

Answer 3

Here is some wisdom. I've been there. You know when people diss you or cuss at you, they are just looking for a reaction. The more you show her that this bothers you, the more she will do it. Just ignore her. Pretend like you have no idea and be nice to her.Smile and great her politely. She be frightened out of her wits.

In psycology i learnt that people who do things like that to other people, have issues of their own that they don't want other people to know about. So they hide their pain by causing someone else to have pain. Just ignore her. She is mental. It would realy be nice to find out waht her weak points are though!!!!;-)

Answer 4

Revenge is sweet I know, but I can assure you, it will come back to bite you one day.

You could always write that you are taking legal action against her for public slander & deformation of character

Or if you can't help yourself, you could write that she is a twisted nut case that won't leave you alone because you told her gently that you liked boys not girls & if she didn't leave you alone, you would tell everyone.

You have to watch some good old movies to get some really great idea's

Check out
Single White Female
Mean Girls

Answer 5

Oh no dont revenge, take the saying never to urgue with a fool, you read books then why such a person stress you, just ignore her that is the best thing and it will solve you many problems, she is provoking you, do away with her, continue doing your own thing that are constractive than wasting your time with her. It will work.

Answer 6

isn't it atypical that a land that favors the underdog is bashing mentioned underdog?? particular u.s. constantly has to insult the minority, in any different case we would have peace, and God knows we will not have that. First it replaced into slaves and ladies persons, which went on for over one hundred years, then it replaced into blacks being no longer able to vote, women persons being no longer able to vote. Immigrants from different international places have been oppressed here, then WWII got here and we positioned Asian-human beings in camps. next we went decrease back to ladies persons, then abortion became a warm button difficulty, then AIDS reared its gruesome head and took the concentration to the GLBT community, which continues to be being oppressed in the present day. i think of it incredibly is a similar reason because of the fact the bully on the playground...worry of being inadequate and desirous to seem extra durable than you fairly are.

Answer 7

just tell her you are not going to stoop to her level and say nasty things. These so called friends of yours are just afraid to be cussed by this girl. i would leave this bunch alone and find some new friends.

Answer 8

Be stronger than them.
You don't need such people in your life.
Move on and just smile when they cuss at you. They will look like the bigger idiots.

Answer 9

I think you should not really fight back. You should ignore her even if it means losing your friends. Its best to have dignity than hang out with people who might backstab you

Answer 10

hey, dont fight back. Have a talk to these nonsensesical people. Fighting back will only cause an endless war