I did love *** arrange marriege. My husband earn less than me. I can't understand why he frustated. He need only money and sex by me not love. We have a cute 2 years old baby. He beaches me always.I lost my respect by him so I donot want to live with him any more. He already sent my daughter to his own home. we live in delhi for job. What should I do.
2007-03-01 20:29:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Which one you are talking about, Woman or Women......?
2007-03-01 20:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Stunner_cool 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hurry makes worry Be patients Life is for live don't get panic sit with him and discuss you just make him under stand money is not a life but Sex is most important one part of life (you just think how long it will go) i requesting you to leave your Ego's first -you start fallen love with him & try to read his Expectation (may be small think)
Take pencil and paper write your merits & Demerits analyse where you or yours going wrong your are the best judger if your are not get any solution,pl try to discuss with well experience well wishers only (Not your parents or husband partners) definately you will be get good solution -meantime be patients my advise don't get any tragedic decision - then enjoyable life will go away from you - Every persons need one partner in old age
All the best my dear sister,pray the god twice a day morning and evening
2007-03-01 21:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Murugesan g 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is it possible for you to divorce your husband and move on with your life without him especially if you are an Indian woman?? I know that society looks down on divorce women in India, eventhough it's no fault of theirs that the marriage didn't work out.
Maybe you could talk to your husband about his behavior and see whether you can "mend" the marriage before calling it quits.
If you have decided on divorce, then be prepared to take all the criticism and insults that will come your way. Be strong for your own sake and show your ex-husband you can survive without him. Live well and be happy.
2007-03-01 20:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUcan live but life doesnot end there.its very easy to walk away but think twice before that.both of u sit and talk.dont listen to others its ur choice.its easy to advice but find out lots way to live together ,people who say live alone r not going to help u.if u r strong enough its ok but in life u have meet lots people like this in so many places.its in ur hands even impossile things can be made possible.do every thing with a smile. alll the best.god will help u some way.
2007-03-02 02:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by revathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey my sis. is getting same problem..we r not forcing her for any decision, but we have told her to take decision for herself, as this is the question of her life and her baby's life. if u r independent, u r earning..why can't u live alone, but u have to be strong. Don't bother abt society, it will not come when u will really need them. if a women is not having a men that does not mean she will die, she can earn as today so many gals r doing this. actually we females make ourselve dependent on men. We have a habit to feel; secure so we don't want to come out of it. be strong n think abt it, whole life si in front of u..
2007-03-01 20:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by sanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus did not layout this international for a guy to stay with no woman nor a lady to stay with no guy. We had all extra useful pray that the day by no potential comes at the same time as women human beings will be able to stay with out adult males and adult males to stay with out women human beings. it truly is unnatural and is going hostile to the grain of which we were created.
2016-10-17 09:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE you not seen any married woman , living separately from her husband (may be Ex husband) ,without any affairs or marrying again?
Yes certainly a woman can live without a man.
But there shall be valid reasons and good and reasonable logical background to support the case.
Any woman living singly in India will normally face some psychological problems .A question will haunt her ''what she is doing is correct or not''
So before taking the bold step of being separated from her man,husband, she must think all these after coming events,either in office or in home or around and shall have a quite convincing answer to herself that she has done a right thing?She must give thought to the child they have and her future.
It is easy to say ''yes you can live'' .Bur are you mentally that strong and are you going to be convinced in the balance of life and will never regret what you have done?
Normally,if a woman is living singly and is unmarried she will face eveteasing like tings and some disturbing comments from near and dear ones .In that case, if a divorsed woman, or a woman separated from her hosband id living singly, there will be more comments initially at ofice, in he neighbourhood and from near and dear .People around you will try to entice you.
Unless you have a strong will and character , and have good ethical values, it will be dificult to lead the life happily after separation.(for any woman without any morals..we ned not answer).
You see LIFE is very very valuable.Physical pleasre is a minor part in it.So if your husband is really a sadist and wants nothing from you except sensual pleasre and your money,without any affection towards you...then life becomes a hell.Try to tell him that you are going to get separated ,if you are bold enough.If the torture,either mental or bodily, is unbearable, and you are not bold enough to say face to face that you want divorse or separation, ( assuming that you have decided to separate from him and live without him happily), then approach a lawyer and he will advise what to do and you will get your freedom and LIVE YOUR LIFE.
EVERYBODY IS WORRIED WHAT OTHERS ARE THINKING ABOUT HIM.Normally
So,I can say ANY WOMAN CAN LIVE HAPPILY WITHOUT HER MAN OR ANY MAN FOR LIFE.YOU CAN SUCH LADIES LIVING HAPPILY AND DOING GREAT WORK TO SOCIETY.
Make adecision and stand upon it, without giving a scope for future lamentation over spilled milk.
Wishi you Gods blessings and mental pease and good health.
May God be with you and lead you in a right path.
2007-03-01 21:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Radhakrishna( prrkrishna) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, they can.
My opinion is, there is no sing of love from Ur husband side better end up relationship..
And be practical there are many women who working individually and feeds their childrens and parents also..
So, there is nothing to think of this relationship, and person who only believe in using her wife...
Take legal steps to get separate..
God Bless You !!
2007-03-04 15:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by hitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's frustated. Discuss things. Ask him about his problems. Discuss your problems with him. You both are married. If you guys can't share problems among yourselves, problems would creep into your lives like hell. Better work it out before it's too late.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-03 04:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
You should be bold and strong, legally give notice to that fool and dont part with your salary any more. Give him notice for ill treating you and threat to your life or move out from that place and seek job outside so that its easy for you to tackle him.
Does he takes any drink or smaks that he does not see the future of his family?
Just drop him for few months and see. Pl dont part with your sallary be economically very sound to kick this type of husband.
Its you and only you who will have to fight out these rascal so be strong and make up your mind not to give up at any cost. one thing more put a full stop break to your married life(sex)
Let him run like dog..... Its thousand times better to disown him now.
God bless you, take care
2007-03-01 22:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can live without man but the world is not good a single women thing about yourself and get your cute baby just go ahed
2007-03-01 20:55:51 · answer #11 · answered by Mani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋