I am engaged for 2 years now but till now,we're not yet married and no plan at all.My bf only keep on telling me that my assurance is my engagement ring from him.
2007-03-01 20:15:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not more than 2 months....... unless you want to risk breaking off the engagement.
2007-03-01 20:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I think 2 years is a little bit long in the tooth, especially if no date has been set. The engagement ring does provide assurance, but only for a little while. Perhaps try discussing setting a date with him? And see how it goes from there. Best wishes, Penny xx
2007-03-01 20:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Vanessa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think after a formal engagement, you should not wait longer than 18 months and that is just for preparation, etc. Longer than that, why get engaged? Sounds like he just got you the ring to keep you happy. Put him on the spot, make him set a date.
2007-03-05 16:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No longer than one year!! An engagement ring is not an assurance from him. Please don't be so naive as to believe him on this. Give him an ultimatum...maybe another 6 months. If he still refuse, then move on. If he loves you, he should not keep you waiting and engaged for more than 2 years.
2007-03-01 20:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I was engaged (to my now husband) for a little over 2 years...and it was worth the wait. How long have you been with him in total? If it bothers you then set a deadline that you are comfortable with sticking to and just tell your guy, "if we aren't married by ___ then I see no reason to get married..." But make sure it is a fair amount of time and that you are serious about saying it.
Remember good things come to those who wait!
Good luck girl and keep your chin up.
2007-03-01 20:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is crap!!! did you plan with him your marriage and engagement date BEFORE you had the engagement??? you NEED to talk to him and make him commit to some date or else he'll keep you engaged forever!!!
for me i've planned with my bf to be engaged for exactly 2 years so that we can get our own house :) and i'm going to be engaged in a few months time... i'm excited... you need to communicate even if it's difficult or you may be scared... at most write down ALL the questions you need answers about and ask them or show him the list and make sure all are answered... btw, do not act as if nothing is wrong... look disturbed everytime you meet him--if he doesn't ask what's wrong, he doesn't care and you need to think about breaking up or TALKING differences out... i wish you all the best :D
2007-03-01 20:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is quit being so needy with this guy that you had 2 youthful ones with in 2 years. He likely already feels trapped and forced via you, do no longer rigidity for marriage. Why do women people imagine a guy has to marry her interior of a particular time for it to advise he cares about her. you opt for to get a existence and commence appearing extra care loose, carry along with your friends and %. up a pastime. You already trapped him with 2 youthful ones in spite of if by accident so merely provide him emotional area and stay your existence. The extra you push him the extra he will turn away. is two youthful ones no longer adequate dedication for you?
2016-11-26 23:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule regarding this. I met my husband in 1999, engaged in 2001 and married in 2004.
2007-03-01 20:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes 2 years is quite long enough to at least make some sort of a commitment to a date for marraige.I think by the sound of it there is some doubt as to whether he wants to get married.Call the shots and let him make his choice,you have nothing to lose.
2007-03-01 20:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by marty 6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years may be quite right to get married. Is there any reasons why he's delayiing the marriage?
2007-03-01 20:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋