Am I too good looking and that's the reason why girls avoid me?

Question

I know that I'm not ugly. I work out all the time and I dress really nice. I see girls checking me out all the time but none of them has ever approach me. I heard that good looking people have a hard time with the opposite sex approaching them. Do you think I intimidate girls and that I should approach them. I have pictures on my myspace, this is not a prank leading to a hideous picture, just me. http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=116721845

Sorry if I came off kinda arrogant but I thought that is what women want, a good looking, confident man like myself. Now I'm all confuse what women want. So you want me to be a modest good looking guy, do they even exist.

Answer 1

Its not up to the girls to approach you. You need to be a man, and just take care of business. If you have friends, it will be the right time when you find the ONE. Life is not about girlfriends and breaking up. Dont go after the first girl that approaches you.

Good Luck

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Let me add one more thing to your additional comment. If you are going around trying to please everyone, then you will become confused (like you say you are.) Think about your life, where you are headed, who you want to be, what you want to do, and make iit happen. Things will begin to fall in place.

Do not rely on the vibes you get from other girls to be your source of confidence. Then when the time comes that you get negative feedback, and you realize you are not perfect, you will not know what to do.

Negative feedback is much better than, "oh you are so hot!" "How are you so cool?" "I want to be like you". Take the advice on how you can become a better person, and what you are doing wrong. Dwell on that and make the changes happen. If you only dwell on the good comments, and vibes you get, you will become proud, and arrogant, and nobody will like you. That is the truth.

Once again Good luck with this advice. I hope your life succeeds!

Answer 2

Lol....aaw I feel bad for you, ur "pain" cuts through ur words...its funny. (cuz u shdn't be having a problem)
Anyways of course girls r definitely not put of by good luks, I mean there r some things in this world that go the unxpected direction but when it comes to the male female relationship...almost everything goes the way "it's supposed to". Hu the hell told u good luking ppl have a hard time..xcuse me!!!
The thing is people (both boys and girls) can kind of make conclusions about other people without even speaking to them, From the way they talk, look, act, body lang, everything and anything (u do know this right) So maybe there mus be something about u that says...THINK TWICE (I know I have it) it could be a bad thing like pride or arrogance or a good thing (I dnt know what an example of a good thing wld be..lol). If ur getting frustrated by it then stop waiting for dem girls to make the move nd YOU make the move. Have fun!! there's no point wasting ur looks at this age. Girls r so much less intimidated by guys thean guys r of girls so I wldn't think intimidation is the answer (dnt flatter urself..:')

Im forgetting something..I mean to I was gonna say something but I can't remember now....Lol
neways be cool, nd live life (but like not promiscuously or nyfin likt that)

Answer 3

I'm a beautiful woman (not to pat my own back),but I would walk into a place and all the guys would stare and their girlfriends will get upset,(pay attention to how other women's attitude changes whenever a beautiful woman steps into the room the next time you see one.
Women can't stand that!
Me,if I see a georgeous woman/girl,I will just compliment her because beauty is a positive thing,not a negative.
Don't hate,you're really insecure....
Be a grown up and appreciate.

Yes,you are right about what you wrote,it is kinda intimitating to make the first move across the floor to a beautiful man or a woman.
Some people have no problem with it,but I think most can relate to that.

Answer 4

I'm sorry, but were you actually expecting the ladies to come to you? When you placed there: "I see girls checking me out all the time but none of them has ever approach me." Not exactly how nature works, dude, even at the risk of sounding sexist. I'm a woman and I like being independent and I am proud of my gender and that we can assert ourselves, approaching the guys we like but, please: Be a man.

If you like someone, let them know. Do approach them. They might actually be the one waiting for you to make the move. I mean who knows, right? Besides, if you notice in nature, it's the male that courts the female. You're wasting your good looks. It's flattering for us girls if a good looking bloke looks our way - imagine the effect if you approached us. Be a gentleman, not a wallflower, not a statue in the corner.

Don't wait for the rain to fall just for you to get a drink.

Answer 5

first, If you think that girls do not approach you might be because you are good looking, then you need someone to shake you hard to let you wake up...Man, you are just ok, that's it, just OK.

secondly, since when women had to do all the job? or again beccuse you think you are so good looking that women must come to you?...one more time, wake up man. If you like a girl, just be the one to approach, that't if you have enough self confedence and courage!

Answer 6

Sorry no offense to you but i do not believe that you are good looking whatsoever.I think the reason why they check you out is maybe because you act or wear clothes differently than most people.Usually male models do not have the problem that you do they get hit on all the time ,(my best friend is a model i know for fact)When i click on your profile i thought that was a joke or something. Sorry dude please come down to earth with us

Answer 7

Dude, I'm a straight guy but I know a good looking guy when I see one, and you my friend is not even that good looking, which is probably why girls avoid you. I don't know who's been feeding you these lies, but they need to stop because your expectation is to high. You probably can't get a 9 or a 10 girl, but maybe 6 and below, 7 is probably to high for you too.

Answer 8

I think I might avoid you because you seem overly confident and vain. There's nothing that turns a girl off more than a good looking guy who knows it and expects women to stroke his male ego. A down to earth average looking guy with a good personality has a much better shot, in my opinion. Right, girls ?

Answer 9

HI

Its not all to do with how people look, its more attitude, and personal disposition. Also girls will want you interested in them firstly, and then yourself

Why don't you approach the girls! Your a good looking chap, just relax and enjoy.

Answer 10

Gosh ! "Ain't it hell " ???

Finally someone I can equate with !

I am soooooo "good looking" girls avoid me like the plague !

I think I must be better looking than you because often girls scream and run away when they see me !

Hey, is that "attraction" or what ???

If i could just be ugly, just for a day .... so many, so little time...