2007-03-01 19:49:19 · 6 answers · asked by paramaguru s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wanted only few days
2007-03-01 19:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An engagement is an announcement for marriage. Being in the engaged stage shouldn't change anything. We've been engaged for 5 years without any changes. We've set wedding dates and cancelled them just as fast. We aren't afraid to get married. We're in a good place. We don't need a piece of paper telling us how we should live and treat each other.
2007-03-02 04:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by fatcatkeepers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During the time between engagement & marriage we experienced a wide array of emotions.......especially just before the ceremony. This is a time of excitement, dreaming, fun, celebration, & planning...a time to get to know each other on a much deeper level than when you're just dating. Then there's the stresses, anxious anticipation, worry & fretting over details, family & friends - who to invite - who to ask to be a part of the wedding ceremony - if i ask one person how will this other person react, will they be mad/hurt?? trying to maintain a budget, getting everything all together, for the perfect day is stressful - but a wonderful lady in my life reminded us when we got really tired, stressed & of course nerves were fraying at both ends - that this "was our day - our version of perfect - & it didn't have to please others...just us...& that our friends and family are there to rally around & support US & share our day with us...not that we are planning it for them." which is wonderful advice.
(& cold feet...thinking "am i sure?" am i ready?"....is my fiancee' sure & ready"?) all are totally normal. Enjoy this time, it is a wonderfully exciting time. Keep your sense of humor & be able to laugh when things get stressed & talk with each other about everything. Good Luck & enjoy it all........
2007-03-02 04:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by rjsluvbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you are engaged, you mean? During the engagement period?
It is a wonderful thing, generally. At first, then it gets tense right before the wedding. Enjoy it while it lasts! It is, like, the best time in your life.
2007-03-02 03:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by shoshana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excitement and anticipation. Then you get married and all of that goes away, and you're left with a person you thought was someone else, and you're all of the sudden unhappy and want out, but you're scared.
Good luck.
2007-03-02 03:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by ... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's fine with me... you need the time to plan your future together--house, wedding, honeymoon, furniture, other expenses... never jump into a marriage without knowing what it is--it demands commitment and hard work :) and don't do anything you feel you are not ready for... saves you all the heartache...
2007-03-02 04:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋