I've asked so many questions on here but I love to hear others views. Me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he moved 2000 miles away..Well, he moved before we broke up..I know there isn't another woman. I am pregnant with his child and we are very young...22 & 23. We had our wedding planned before the baby. Dr. said I would never be able to have kids..my ex wanted one and I ended up getting pregnant. We wasn't trying because of what the Dr. told me. He was very excited while I was kind of depressed because I wanted to be married and have my degree. Now, I wish he comes back and I know alot of people thinks that is stupid. We had a pretty good relationship, His father walked out on him as a baby. He tells me he misses me and loves me but picks stupid fights..Does distance really make the heart grow fonder?? I told him last night we shouldn't talk until we clear our heads..Has this every happened to anyone? He says we "can't" work it out..but yet sends me mixed signals..
2007-03-01 19:21:07 · 2 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He called me tonight and told me he loves and misses me..I love him very much and want to make it work..but he doesn't seem to want to..I'm starting to think there is someone else..
2007-03-01 19:21:50 · update #1
When my husband walked out on us, my daughter and I had a hard time adjusting to life without him. Mainly because he was constantly coming back saying how he loved us and wanted to try again, that we could make it work. But any time the wind changed directions, so did he. He would get angry and verbally abusive towards me, treat daughter as if she did not exist and leave again. Stupidly, I allowed this to go on for over a year, because I didn't know what to do without him. It was not a question of love as I prayed, it was a control issue. He wanted everything to be as he wanted it and when we fit into his life he would come back, but as soon as he felt like he was having to act like a husband and father he would run. Be careful. The mixed messages and stupid little fights he picks could have more meaning than they appear. You need to do what is best for you and for your baby!! Take it from a single again mother, you can do it on your own. I have been, with no financial support, for 8 years. Be strong and don't let anyone push you around. Let him know how you feel, but if he is saying you can't work this out... move on. You are young and have a future ahead of you, for you and the baby.
2007-03-02 02:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by sammie7898 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r getting healthy signals, so is he. Be careful to avoid old mistakes. Let u take turns for blurting out.
2007-03-01 20:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋