How can you tell a potential wife to have a good character in a very short span of time like less than 3 months? Serious answers only please!.
2007-03-01 19:19:42 · 8 answers · asked by King S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
check out her friends and relatives...and if you can empoyers and past employers..
it still is a gamble but if you can see her relationship with her mother father brother and sister and other relatives.
its is always a gamble..sometimes you just have to take a chance
Also when and if they come to the US they have to have a medical clearance and a police report....maybe you can get a police report from her home coutry by the embassy? get a pre nuptial agreement too..it might cost you but in the long run save you $$$
2007-03-01 19:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to have a good character....in less than three months.... i dont understand your reasoning for the question actually. if the potential wife is of bad charactor....why would you consider marrying her in the first place? how long have you actually known her? what kind of conversations or experiences with her that would cause you to want to marry her....then wonder how to change her charactor? if youre wanting to ask your gal to act a different way to impress others? or what? consider what you are saying and why and then have a good heart to heart with her. peace
2007-03-02 03:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she meet the criteria you have for what you are looking for in a wife? Also, do you know any of her friends that have known her for a long time, that you could talk with about her? I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-03-02 03:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can some one tell the same thing about a potential husband.
2007-03-02 03:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here in the U.S. you either accept people as they are or you don't consider them a "potential wife". If you plan on marrying her don't plan on changing her. You either marry a woman (or a man) as they are or don't marry them. Trying to make someone be who you want them to be in order to marry them is foolish at best.
2007-03-02 03:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Less than three months are not enough time to even consider marriage, much less consider telling someone to change their character.
2007-03-02 03:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is hard to tell,because the novelty of the relationship is still new,each one is showing their best behavior to each other. Until,as the saying goes" familiarity breeds contempt."....
2007-03-02 03:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cannot
2007-03-02 03:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋