We have been trying for over three years and now it's to the point where we are going to go ahead with the doctors advice. I have taken the fertility meds already but both times I tried they made me goofy. I do ovulation test all the time. I have everything mapped out from my periods to our sex life. I just want to know if someone has a suggestion of something else I can try besides for the obvious ones. I would like it to be in a natural state and not done by a doctor. I am really getting depressed about it at this point not to mention I have my period every 14 `days now (sometimes longer). Plus I also have another period a week after the one I just had, both lasting for more than 5 days. I have been to the doctors and had many tests done I just want some "home remedies" for lack of better word. Thank you to anyone that answers and even if you don't say a prayer for me please and for women that are in the same situation. By the way it's not my husband he's been checked.
2007-03-01 19:14:40 · 5 answers · asked by Charlie B 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have been trying 3 years too and i know how you must be feeling. I put off taking my fertility pills because they were making me feel a failure. People cant understand unless they have been there themselves and made silly comments like 'youre trying to hard' and 'maybe its not meant to be' I am taking the Clomid now because i want a baby and i have accepted that if i need a little help to get there then so be it.Your periods are to pot arent they? Is the doctor giving you anything for that? I have heard that Agnus Castus is good for regulating hormonal problems.
I stopped being obsessed by ovulation etc and try not to think about it now, i hated being the type of woman who only wanted sex when i was ovulating so am trying really hard to chill out with that but its not easy. We have both been checked and are fine, we are under the title of 'unexplained infertility' now. Keep smiling i know we will both get a baby in the end, i have my fingers crossed for you x
2007-03-01 19:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is really hard for you, I was desperate for a baby. I spent every second thinking about it, it was very difficult to deal with.
You must relax! I know it's easier said then done but stress can prevent you from getting pregnant. I would stop paying attention to ovulation and just have sex when you're in the mood. Making a baby should be enjoyable, not a chore.
I think it will happen for you, good luck.
2007-03-02 03:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by LauraMarie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry.
I know other couples who have been in the same situation.
Have you tried Natural Family Planning?
I hope this somewhat helps, and I'll pray for your success.
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2007-03-02 03:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i will pray for you..but try not to stress(i know it almost impossibleafter so long) the lord will give you a child when it fits into his plan
2007-03-02 03:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla C 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ill have a baby for. i make beatiful babies
2007-03-02 03:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋