2007-03-01 18:32:46 · 18 answers · asked by Allina Lorenzo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You do not love ether of them! Otherwise you wouldnt have fallen for one LUST and fallen for another LUST! Real love you cant control and you dont feel that for just anyone!
2007-03-01 18:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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I've got a boyfriend but i fall in love with my work mate? how am i gonna do? but i still love my boyfriend!
2015-08-23 06:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Concordia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon how serious you are about your boyfriend. Do you love him a lot and does he love you a lot? If both the answers are yes, then I would suggest you AVOID THE WORKMATE like the plague.
Falling in love with co-workers happens when you are not being realistic about workplace dynamics. Men and women are at risk of becoming involved in the workplace if they do not recognize that spending a great deal of intense time with each other can build bonds, which could potentially turn romantic.
Since this has almost happened for you, I would cut this off with the co-worker immediately. However, it really depends on how willing you are to salvage your relationship with your boyfriend.
2007-03-01 19:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by shoshana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay..my good just had a the exact same problem.
She ended up becoming friend with this guy she worked with...and they got drunk together socially and ended up having sex....and that kept leading to more and more....and she had a boyfriend that she was verry in love with....its been 5 months later and she finnaly ended it with the guy she worked with becuz of her guilt. She realized how much she loved her boyfriend. I think that you should really take a step back and figure out what you really want. Becuz you dont want to start a relationship with a guy when you are in love with somoene else. And plus ....if he feels the same about you....he should have more respect 4 you ..and wait 4 you to make up your mind....becuz you know now that you 2 will never just be friends once feeling get involved.
XOXO
2007-03-01 18:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by sugurnspice01 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what is LOVE in the first place? You are having a crush with your work mate. Crush won't last for long. Right now, guess u must be feeling confused about your feelings and emotions. Furthermore you cant fall in love with two persons at the same time. I think you really need to ask yourself who you really love?
2007-03-01 18:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by Endless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you do that causes you to spend so much time with your work mate that you happen to "fall in love" with him? Stop spending extra time with him. Tell him you need some space. Back off...or dump your boyfriend. Pick one.
P.S: There's a diff btwn being in like, in love, and in lust even though the feelings are similiar. I know you already knew that, but it's something to keep in mind.
2007-03-01 18:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might just be curiosity..or even lust...that's drawing you to your workmate. have you ever done anything with him? do you flirt at work? to me, even though you haven't said much, it sounds like you love your boyf, but have a thing for a collegue. i wouldn't call it love. try and not like the things that drew you to him in the first place, think of your goregeous boy evrytime you see him...
do heaps more things with your boy. treat him to a day out and it may make you realise why you're with him and not with that other guy! when you see this workmate next just think of how good your boy makes you feel....or the feeling he gave you when you first got together. focus on him and not that other guy. he deserves you, don't throw it away for something that could end in tears....stay with your boy and dont think nout that other guy. if anything is happening between you....then you should end it..and personally, i think that you shouldn't keep secrets to you boy...but thats your choice. you know whats best for you, and thats all i can say on that note. good luck to you and i hope you get over this guy.
(fingers xd)
2007-03-01 18:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% chance is you are going to hit a wall. She sees u like a friend. You sounds like a nice guy and every girl needs a nice guy but just as friends. You should not tell her and even if u want to tell her prepare for the worst. If u really like to get her then before saying anything to her just research on internet on "how to get out of friend zone" and may be just maybe she will be ready for a relation with you. All the best.
2016-03-17 03:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously have a high sex drive. I say break up with your boyfriend and then have all the sex you want to. Committed relationships for love flakes such as yourself will only cause grief and pain for you and your companion. The real exprssion isnt make love not war but make love alot more.
2007-03-01 18:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by HOCKEYGURU 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get yourself to stop paying attention to the work mate. It's not fair for your bf. that makes you wonder about your relationship with your bf. maybe you gotta work things out or end it.
2007-03-01 18:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋