help me, im goind downhill and quick..i want to be able to go up to girls and talk to them no problem and not get shut down,and i want to be all around likeable
2007-03-01 18:11:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Geezzz.. i can't get over it! your sooooo HOTT!! (if you really do look like that)
2007-03-01 18:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret to being all around likeable is confidence. If you are confident with yourself, you give off a feeling of confidence and that attracts people straight away. Sounds like you seem to be lacking a bit of that.
May I suggest a new pastime? Try a mixed sport - you'll spend a lot of time training, not a lot of time talking, but you'll start to feel more comfortable being around girls and slowly get to know them better.
Even better, try volunteering with people less fortunate then yourself. There is no greater feeling that that of helping someone who really needs it. You'll find that you will feel better about yourself and you'll make new friends with other volunteers (girls as well). It'll be easier to talk with girls then as the environment is a little more relaxed and you are both there helping others rather than trying to strike up a conversation.
Another thing to remember - some girls are really attracted to the quiet, tounge-tied/shy types ;)
2007-03-02 02:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by Moneta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me buddy like you just need some confidence. Don't worry about girls so much when the right one comes along it will all happen naturally. If you keep putting pressure on yourself and expectations your only going to let yourself down. Relax take care of you, don't sweat the small stuff:)
2007-03-02 02:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can just say that these are only "fabrication" and you make me angry do you know why? I'll tell you it's very simple:
first if you look really like your avatar"photo" you are beautiful and it means you can be loved by anyone at first sight.
second if you don't value and estimate yourself like you do how can you ask other people to do that?
third you have to be bold and robust so don't fail like that.
you have to be also self-confident
trust me and believe me:every thing will be allright.
don't lose heart and demoralize yourself snowboard guy ok!!!
2007-03-04 01:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope u read all the answers - listen to us we know best.
be Ur self and love that person and like Ur self and so will anther people. repeat after me "I sexy and know it"
better
Trust on God - let Him help u cause at times like these you do need someone and let Him help u let Him be in Ur life.
good luck stud
2007-03-02 02:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ford's Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont put ur self down that helps and maybe ur princess is waiting right around the corner neeed more help email me adriennekris@yahoo.com
later
2007-03-02 02:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Adrienne W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you have to do is get your self esteem up. and you have to like yourself. and everything will come natural after you do. good luck.
2007-03-02 02:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God for confidence in yourself. You really need that.
God is always there for you. Just have faith in Him.
2007-03-02 02:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your depressed aura turns people off...even if you fake it, be cheerful, and positive...compliment someone...
2007-03-02 02:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Pooks 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just b u
2007-03-02 02:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by tiggerme20006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋