So My best friend who happens to be a guy is coming home from a long trip. We have before done this ..friends with benefits things. So yes we have slept we each other until i told him i couldnt cuz i had feelings for him now and wanted more of him then just sex. Due to his career choice and him going out of town a lot , he couldn have one at the moment , but his brother told me that it is somewhat true but its also cuz hes afarid since his past relationships were hell. So now his coming home and spending the night with me in a hotel after we go bar instead of cabing home. So were both going to be drinking and feelin really good. If he makes a move so I do it, or should i make a move , cuz i really want to . Im just afarid of getting things messed up.
2007-03-01 17:54:53 · 15 answers · asked by JENNIFER C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont *** up a great friendship get drunk have fun but keep ur panties on it's funny you ask this question cuz i know you already know the answer if your friendship is as strong as i think it is then it's more special then anything
ok give me 5 points lol
i wish you the best
mpltonrye@yahoo.ca
2007-03-01 18:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by terry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not want the same thing so stay friends without benefits. You can not change him and if he chooses to be in a hell hole for the rest of his life, why do you want to burn with him? Are you a psychiatrist or a psychologist? Just wondering because it will save you a lot of money to do your own therapy!
Take care and nothing is wrong with being in control of your members!
2007-03-02 02:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going out for drinks and then spending the night in a hotel together? Are you kidding?
You know darn well it's going to happen.
2007-03-02 01:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Vegan 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Jen there's nothing that messes up a friendship than a relationship with your friend stick to a friendship girl cause it's forever
2007-03-02 02:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by baby n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bit of a tough one. If you want to remain friends, then I wouldn't do anything. However, life is a gamble, and you don't want to miss an opportunity. And for God's sake! HAVE FUN! You only live once, and life is full of risks. Go for it girl! You may regret it later, but you may regret it more if you dont! Good Luck!
2007-03-02 02:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tina B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If u continue this way he is never gonna commit. Why should he? You are easy access without the commitment.
2007-03-02 02:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by cay1219 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if alchohol is involved u don't need to worry ypur little head about who will make the move first - he will, 100% garantee
2007-03-02 02:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things are going to get messed up.
but you want to do it, so do it, have fun, and try to keep yourself in check when he leaves town again.
it's just sex for you too unless you drive yourself crazy and let yourself obsess.
but remember tomorrow - if he wanted a realtionship you'd be in one.
2007-03-02 01:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
try not to dwell on it too much,enjoy your evening together and let nature take its course
2007-03-02 02:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should! things wont get messed up if you have sex. its better than nothin
2007-03-02 02:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋