i have lot of shy and how to overcome this and how to speak with others?

Question

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Answer 1

when you want to converse with somebody be cool,look in persons eyes, speak in bold voice n carefully listen to other person so that you can answer him or her confidently...............you can practice this funda with your friends or relatives n after try to talk in same manner with strangers whom you dont know. start with shopkeeper then with anyone on bustop n ask about time!!!!!
by starting with this small things you will definitely improve!!!!!!
If you are a student then try these small conversation about whats the time?when the lecture class is gonna start?etc with your classmates or seniors or juniors..This will help you.

Answer 2

Attend some Personality Devleopment classes.
Be confident and make attempts to speak , attend parties, get togethers make friends.
Due to ur problem you may fail one or 2 times but will succeed one day , if you give up thinking this then u can never get rid of this personality.
Inorder to overcome this problem don't get over excited and become chatter box . There are many persons who are reserved and i personally feel your actions and mind should speak.
All the Best

Answer 3

Infact,I have gone through this problem earlier.But now I have fortunately recovered from it.I will suggest u to practice self conversation infront of wall or mirror when u r alone.It may seem funny or awkward but it will heip u a lot.Its my personal experience.
Gradually u will find that u can talk to every person.
And also feel free to communicate with people in ur neighbour or ur close friend.It will give u confidence to cvommunicate.

Answer 4

first of all be positive and think no one is better then u and .u don't know what u can do until u try it .think that u r the best. do not worry about people if u r right in ur work then no body will stop u . speak in poliet way so that the person whom r u speaking to fell comfortable to speak to u .

Answer 5

unless you keep talking you cannot come out of this fear.
to keep talking you have to keep talking with fear or embarasment. no problem even if you are wrong, your
words may be wrong, your grammar may be wrong, but
keep on trying to express yourself, no need to be so concious
that you should be correct and have to be perfect, coz. no is perfect, and all sorts of fears we only i.e. each one has to overcome and live fr suivival

Answer 6

cant answer your question unless we know you are a boy or a girl,both sex have different problems so answers are different,and why have u given your email id,if ur a shy person ,shy persons will never do such things.

Answer 7

to overcome shyness first and foremost learn to smile and wish them. later try and converse them as though u know them for long time.

Answer 8

the only way.
be an expert in the chosen field.
things will change for good.
hardwok,sincerity and truth are the inputs required.
good luck!

Answer 9

Overcome it by reading the following articles:
http://www.public-speaking-solutions.com/fear-of-public-speaking.html

http://www.public-speaking-solutions.com/self-esteem.html
http://www.public-speaking-solutions.com/build-confidence.html

Answer 10

-Practise in the mirror.
-Figure out what makes you feel self concious and try to overcome that, and you will, hopefully, feel more confident.