i have a friend who treat me gd...and nw i keep thinking of her...i tried to forget her in my mind..am i a homosexual???how to make myself to forget her
2007-03-01 17:10:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
if you have to ask then it is possible
2007-03-01 17:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by 99half 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say that you are not... i think it is more likely that she is giving you attention that you soo desperatly want. She sounds like a great friend nothing more nothing less. I do think that you could ruin a great friendship if you did try anything though. By the way i don't think it is necessary to try to forget her just live life how you normally would and one day you will meet someone who will also treat you good... chances are you will probably begin to focus your attention onto them instead.
2007-03-02 01:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by MistiQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious that you want to forget her, is there something in how you feel that you don't want to allow yourself to feel?
Research shows that many people are not just straight or gay, about one in five of us has some feelings or desires or experience both ways. So it's possible that you fancy her... and maybe other women who look rather like her... and at the same time that you more often feel attrated to men.
2007-03-04 12:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by MBK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to date and have sex with someone of your sex, you are gay.
That is just life and it is OK . . . But just as with straight people, the other person may not be interested.
All successful relationships have to happen slowly with each person making moves in the same direction.
You can ask her how she feels about gay people in general and if she is accepting, then maybe go to the next step and ask if she is gay .
One step at a time & if someone is not interested, back off - that is just life.
2007-03-02 01:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a homo. You just care about her a lot since she is always good to you and stuff. I have a friend like that too. He is always treating me GREAT and he NEVER leave my mind. So dont worry. Dont forget her. Cuz there might not be another her that treats you good.
2007-03-02 01:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by tiggergirllover05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't jump to conclusions like that just because you really like someone. If you are, that's fine, but you don't really know yet. Even if you are, I wouldn't try to get away from it. That's who you are. You're just going to have to live with it and accept yourself for who you are. If you don't, you'll probably fall into a terrible depression.
2007-03-02 01:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tooltroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a homosexual is when two guys do the act of sex lesbians are when two females do the actual act of sex. no, a person isnt born a lesbian or homosexual dont believe that crap for one second. until a person does the actual act they arent anything but a human being.
is a person a murderer before they kill, is a person a thief before they steal, NO!!!
2007-03-02 01:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by sadeyzluv 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋