the last time me and my boyfriend had sex it hurt BAD!! I tried to deal with it and keep going but then with one of his thrusts I doubled over in pain it felt like he hit something in the lower right side and now it's feeling really bruised. We've had this happen quite a few times now and it makes me scared to have sex. I've been with others and never had this problem. Anyone know what this could be or how to fix it. Also me and him are cleared of any STD's so it's nothing like that! Thanks!
2007-03-01 17:09:24 · 9 answers · asked by xxxlostsocalgirlxxx 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
oh I'm currently not on birth control and I know its not a yeast or bladder infection because I do get those all the time.
2007-03-01 17:10:52 · update #1
sounds like pelvic inflamatory disease...it comes and goes in the inflammation which causes the pain...or...be seen by your doctor...or...think about if you are in the same part of your cycle...who knows? go get checked out if it keeps happening...had you had a bowel movement that day, were you constipated? that can make it painful in places...
2007-03-01 17:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to use more lubrication, I'd say, because as a result of being afraid to have sex, your vaginal muscles are tensing during intercourse. This makes the experience far more painful, hence the burising. Also, you might want to try to be less rough while having sex, and use a position that doesn't involve too much penetration, and that is a comfortable one for you. Good luck, and try not to be afraid when you have sex, as this will make the experience uncomfortable. Instead, try to incorporate more foreplay into your sex life. Before actually having sex, try to slow things down and experiment with kissing, nibbling, licking etc. This slower, less rough approach will cause your body to lubricate itself better, and your vaginal muscles will unclench, making the sex less painful.
2007-03-02 01:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, if you use soap in the vaginal area while taking a shower, it can irritate that area, so be careful with that.
Otherwise, you probably want to use a lot of lubrication because if you don't naturally have enough, the thrusts do really hurt.
Silicone ones last the longest.
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2007-03-04 11:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have an infection. It doesn't necessarily have to be an STD, but it could be because you just never know. Go to the doctor because something is wrong. This isn't normal.
2007-03-02 01:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really long? he might be hitting you cervix, that hurts. Or it might just be the position you guys are using. I would say go to the doctor just in case and try other positions that don't allow so much penetration.
2007-03-02 01:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to have more foreplay get your boyfriend to touch you more to get you more aroused..
I to suffered this and had tests done and they where all clear of infections ect.....
i found when we had more touching ect.... the more relaxted i became and the hurting stopped .
But you should see a doctor to get checked out
and talk to them about your problem they can give you advice..
good luck.......
Lisa
2007-03-02 01:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by fat8oy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's too large and/or you need more lubrication. Consider trying different positions.
2007-03-02 01:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by kamikak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably cause you are a little tight if you get a dildo it can stretch you a little more or maybe caused by dryness if pain persists go to gyne for ultrasound
2007-03-02 01:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by eliza m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how big is your boyfriend maybe thats the problem
2007-03-02 01:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by kevinjones729 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋