i borrowed 50.00 from my best friend of 8 years, i first mailed a check to her and she said she never got it, so i deposited the money in her account. and since then she will not return my calls, letters or emails and it hurts because if i had of known 50.00 would have ended a friendship i never would have borrowed it, i went through some rough finacial times to the point were i was a paycheck from being put on the street and it may have took time for me to give it back, the point was i did. and if 50. bucks is going to ruin a friendship maybe it wasnt a real friendship to begin with. i considered this chick to be my sister, we went through alot in 8 years, tears of joy, and sadness, children, portraits and alot of love , i cant belive she just tossed me to the side like that, i have email left her msgs, asking her to please explain what i did wrong if there was anything at all that i did or if we just grew apart, but right now i am hurt, and angry and i just need some insight.
2007-03-01 16:56:49 · 10 answers · asked by ms.cuttie 78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sounds like you have done everything you could do.so let her come to you now . there have been times that my friends and i needed a brake give it to her and she might miss you and come back or she could throw it away.i'm so sorry this happened to you .i know it must hurt. good luck
2007-03-01 17:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've learned a hard lesson in life. NEVER borrow or loan friends or family money. It is the root of all evil and will destroy a relationship with a quickness. At this point, all you can do is leave her a message apologizing for not paying her back on time and asking her to give you a call when she is ready to forgive you. Then let it go! If the relationship is meant to last beyond the 8 years, it will; otherwise, you will both move on with your lives.
2007-03-01 17:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend of 18 years borrowed $400.00 from me and was suppose to pay it back in six weeks. I didn't hear from her for two months, so I called her numerous times and left her messages to call me back regarding the loan. She never once called me back. After three month I left her another message and this is what I said "I refuse to play cat and mouse with you, call me or I will have no alternative than to go to your house." That same day she returned my money. But I did not let money get in the way of our friendship. Money comes and money goes but good friends will last for ever. I forgave her.
2007-03-01 17:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why do you have her bank account information? hm? well, did you tell ehr when you would give it back? Did you give it back after that deadline? Did she really have the $50 to loan you for a significant amount of time? I feel like some information is missing here - this can't be the whole story.
2007-03-01 17:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 02:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when loaning money to 'Anyone" you need to first choose which is more important . the money or the friendship, cause chances are one will over power the other,,, money comes and goes, but a good friend is hard to find!! flush the money down the drain and value your friend..
2007-03-01 17:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by mombomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guy are best friends best friends stick thru thick and thin you guys should talk it out you should like go up to her house and talk to her or send her a note to her job and say that you need to talk to her and tell her how much u really appreciated her as a friend and tell her that your friendship mean more than just 50.00 talk to her
2007-03-01 17:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by ELI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is talk it out but if shes not talking dosent sound like she is interested in working things out which that is a shame freindship is worth more than 50 bucks
2007-03-01 17:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is her reaction after you paid her back not once but twice, than i hate to tell you but she never really was a true friend.
Cut your losses and consider it an inexpensive eye-opener. ;)
2007-03-01 17:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We heard your side, we didn't hear hers. I don't know what would cool off a friend so quickly - you must have done something.
2007-03-01 17:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋