been with him for 27yrs he decides to have a affair not only one.but sever womens.i have tried to forgive him but i can't.he's on drugs won't work now when u go out looking for a job .u have to drop. he lies i still beleive he still see this one girl that at one time he suppose to loved.he won't leave me along
2007-03-01 16:32:59 · 11 answers · asked by msmonalisaj@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the man has cheated multiple times, either you are a unwashed pig or he is a dirty dog. He won't change so get away from him and find yourself a decent guy. Cut him completely off, and get on with your life, you are not getting any younger.
In the future use spell check.
2007-03-01 16:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Dutch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get an MP3 recorder (you can easily get ones that are small enough to hide anywhere) and record evidence against him. Once you have what you need, a lawyer will make sure he is left with nothing except maybe a change of socks. And of course they will make sure that you never have to see him again.
2007-03-02 00:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell him, you need to show him. If that's what you really want that is. It took 31 yrs for me to get tired of that same type of situation, and I went and filed for my freedom myself. So, make up your mind if you can't get it resolved through counseling or talking things over for an agreement to work it out. It won't have a choice but to except he's history.
2007-03-02 00:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start hanging around your local "Biker" bar. When u start 2 get to know "The Crew",Take him down there for "a night out",have his *** kicked,then tell him, that if he dont leave you alone,the next *** wipping he gets,he wont remember !!.Good luck. If u were in milwaukee, I could handel this 4 u !!.
2007-03-02 00:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by kmantgab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this how you want to live your life? Distrusting, disgusted, disillusioned? Is it really worth all this pain to have a life like this? I think you know the answer already of what you need and want to do, but the courage has to come from you, not anyone on Yahoo
2007-03-02 00:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by jeninsocal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It has to be your choice and you must take responsibility for your OWN action, not his.
Be your own best friend, hero, supporter, then find out what you want for yourself.
Hoping for the best for you.
2007-03-02 01:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind a women will put up with a man like that?
2007-03-02 00:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your husbands name Cheece or Chong?
2007-03-02 00:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Campo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just file for divorce and move out..
2007-03-02 00:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been with him for so long. you should have been gone
just tell him that you are done with everthing that he has put you
thought and talk to a lawyer.
2007-03-02 00:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋