i think my step sister is inlove with my ex-bf
and i personally think that it'll be wrong if she went out with him because she knows for a fact that i love him so much and if she ever did that i would never forgive her or him either.
but i have a feeling that she really likes him and probably went out with him when me and michael (his name) broke up.
but thats how we are Michael and i constantly breaks up and get back together. and if i ever found out that they went out i would probably die!!
(i dont know the whole story about them but i know for a fact that she liked him.)everytime i talk about him she would always say something negative about him. and one time i she had her myspace opened. and i went snopping on it (i had to find out)
she had left him a message saying that she loved him and when is he going to leave me for her.
something about her doesnt feel right and i now know that i can not trust her.
and after me and michael broke up, they stared to talk.
(they stop talking after a couple of weeks) and i know now that when they were talking at that time, they didnt go out cuz he was going out with another girl.
but that doesnt really bother me....
2-3 months later me and him started to talk again. as friends.
my step-sister doesnt know but i dont thnk i'd tell her.
i keep my secrets to myseft now
but should i still be concerned about my step-sister?
2007-03-01 16:25:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In my point of view, the problem needs to be sorted out between YOU and HIM, and not YOU and HER!
Talk to him, does he still love you? Does he want to be with you? Or does her love her?
Talk about what is concerning you, and work things out with him without bring up the subject to her.
Be honest about your true feelings and fears.
2007-03-01 16:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Michael - not worth it!! Leave the guy for good. Not matter how much you love him, he obviously DOES NOT feel the same way. If he did, he certainly would not be dating other people straight after you guys broke up, he certainly would not be flirting with your step-sister and you both would not be breaking up, getting back together etc etc etc.
As for your step-sister, this is a little bit more difficult. You will have to see her, spend time with her etc etc for the rest of your life if you want to keep your life easy and not upset your parent/step-parent. I say, let her have him. Then she can find out what he's really like - a waste of time.
2007-03-01 18:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Moneta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So! Mike is scoring on you AND your step sister. Sounds like this guy is in seventh heaven. Both of you need to team up and show him what a looser he really is. Set him up, and see for yourselves. He could care less about either of you. BTW, you don't own Mike until you marry him. If your sis went out with him, it's tough beans. All's fair in love & war. Blame him, not her. Then go out and find someone trustworthy to date.
2007-03-01 16:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by nitr0bike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and Michael are broke UP that makes him fair game!! NOW just tell your step sister not to date him and see if she is the kind to respect your wishes? GOOD LUCK
2007-03-01 16:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don be so jealous ok, girl if you really love the person you must do such good things ok.
if your sister love the same person you loved dont worry love is for everyone it's ok if two person inlove with the person they like.
get's!! if yuo did;nt get on what i say i'm sorry i'm not good in grammar.
2007-03-01 16:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by kent r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so, you're concerned about your step-sister, but you're not concerned about Michael?? Where's the logic here??
2007-03-01 16:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u still have feelings for the guy
tell ur step sis
thats not cool
and the guy might be doin it to get under ur skin
2007-03-01 16:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u still with michael? if not, let her have him. if u r, break up, and find another guy
2007-03-01 16:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lols 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might wanna talk to her about itr b 4 it goes to far
2007-03-01 16:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by staceydv4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes two so Mikey is a dog good luck
2007-03-01 16:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋