I met this guy online a few days ago, and he is really sweet, and perfect for me from what I can tell. I talked to him on the phone and he is so cute. He is funny, and, ahhh, I like him already. The thing is, we have not established anything. I want to, but am afraid, because I am significantly heavier than he. I am a bit insecure. He did say that its the inside that counts. He also told me that he wanted to press me up against a wall and give me a soul searching kiss. AWWW. He is so cute. LOL. So, yea, I want him, but don't want to scare him off by letting him know how I truly feel. I beat around the bush and as Will Truman says "I DONT WANT TO BE NEEDY!" (SMILING THINKING ABT HIM) What do I do? Do I let him make the move. I am afraid if he does, he may never, and I will be left searching for the pot of gold.
2007-03-01 16:25:26 · 7 answers · asked by Randizzle 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You say you like him yet you're afraid to make the first move? Who's keeping tabs on something like this? If you don't let him know you do like him, he will move on to someone who will tell him that he "lights their fire". Besides, if the two of you do decide to get together, you could choose to lose some weight - it would go a long way to "curing" your self-consciousness about your weight. Or you might even find out that he DOES care for you in spite of it. BUT YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT MIGHT HAPPEN UNLESS YOU TAKE "THE PLUNGE"!
2007-03-01 16:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by dmspartan2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those 3 above me, or that may have been. Have no pics. Not even an Icon. They are clones.
Anywho, It's computer love. How old are you? Teenager? Have you EVEN seen a pic of him? Yeah...You may have heard his voice, but results may vary. >_<
It IS the inside that counts.
Homosexuals head straight for the hotness and its horrible.
You say you like him. You sound like you mean it.
If he was to show you a picture of him...{Im not getting your situation. You met him? What?} and if he wasn't the Handsome Prince you expected to rescue you. Exept the fact that he makes you happy.
If your happiness is all that matters to him.
Everything is worth it.
2007-03-01 16:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Me..................... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple: If you are into him, go for it. If you are insecure because of the weight, do something agout it!
2007-03-01 16:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! See what happens..take him out to dinner or something fun :)
2007-03-01 17:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter who make the move first. both of u are in love. go for it
2007-03-01 16:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shame of you.Try to be a man not a gay... That is what I think will be good for you.
2007-03-01 16:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by man 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
If you were my child I would bury my head in shame.
2007-03-01 16:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋