My boyfriend and I are taking a small break from one another. I am not sure if I am willing to wait or should I just be paitent and wait for him to call on me and aski me back. What can I do or what should I do??
2007-03-01 16:16:04 · 9 answers · asked by happy_girl8869 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a short break? after 3 months? He's not going to call and ask you back. sorry
2007-03-01 16:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by land-pliskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you are taking a break from each other. Is that the case or is he taking a break from you?
Whatever happened then, what has changed? I am assuming there was a reason for the break. Has that been resolved? Without a resolution of the issues that caused the break there will be more breaks.
Secondly, never sit a round waiting for any man to call and ask you back. Your life is too precious to be spent sitting around waiting. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You will never get the time wasted back. Get out and do something. Take dance classes, go to a museum, go swimming, go out with friends, read a book but DO NOT WAIT FOR HIM.
Thirdly, you are responsible for your own happiness. YOU. Your happiness does not depend on how people treat you or what life throws at you but on what you choose to do with it. Please choose not to wait around for anyone.
2007-03-01 16:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tip Top 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had been there and done that. "Break" usually means they have another woman on the side and they want you still on the side like a back up or someone to fall on. I did this for 4 years off and on and finally I caught him cheating on me with 3 other girls that's when I made a decision to move on . My advise don't wait for him start your life by dating others and don't just give in to him when he returns . Stand your ground and be firm. Men cannot treat us women like we're doormats it should be the other way around!
2007-03-01 16:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is why are you taking a little break, not if you wont to weight for him?If you need time apart to think do we wont to do this anymore the answer is NO now go out and find the one you wont to be with good luck
2007-03-01 16:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-22 01:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by adella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why r u takeing a "break". Whos idea was this. If it was his,get a blood test from him b/4 u take him back.. good luck.
2007-03-01 16:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by kmantgab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, breaks are so much fun, i love those break things, gives people an oportunity to find someone new and then watch as the other person cries and stuff, wonderfull times
2007-03-01 16:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been without him for 3 months , trust me he allready
move on, time for you to do the same. if he was a real man he
would have been honest about his feeling instead of playing
these game. you better off with out him.
2007-03-01 17:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go about your life. you can give it time. and if you find a new man then to bad for the ex.he may by seeing some one.do as your heart tells you
2007-03-01 16:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋