its like one is a girl and then they switch ....i only mean the sex part not the inner human and all that other crap
2007-03-01 15:53:48 · 25 answers · asked by yellow 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yeah but being gay isn't about "doing it in the butt". It's about love and attraction. The sex is a way of expressing that attraction and/or love. Just like it is with straight people.
2007-03-01 16:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone else already asked that question, but here goes my answer again:
1) Not all gay men enjoy anal sex. In polls, gay men consistently say they prefer oral sex or mutual masturbation to anal sex. Of course, many gay men absolutely love anal sex and have it first on their list of preferred types of sex. But there are some gay men who hate anal sex and never have it . . . look up the term "g0y", for instance.
2) Sex is more than just the acts you can do with another person. A straight man doesn't define his attraction to a woman as the fact that they can have penis-in-vagina sex . . . he is aroused by the entirety of her female body, not just the vagina. A gay man can have anal sex with a woman, yes, but everything else about her would disgust him, or at least not turn him on, plus the general idea that it's a woman he's with, and not a man.
I don't know if that's answered your question, but basically, for gay men who like anal sex, it's about the male body that they enjoy, not just the anus. That's why they're with men and not women, who they could potentially have anal sex with, as you pointed out.
Hope that helps.
2007-03-02 01:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably because the ear canal is to small, and getting done through the nose would impair breathing.
Also, 'one is a girl and then they switch' is dumb. It's 2 guys having sex, no one pretends to be a girl.
2007-03-02 00:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by phxguy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, u asked this question before.
It's not all about sex.
What makes a person gay is attraction to the same sex.
A gay man will sleep with a man, not a woman.
If he switches from a woman to a man, he is bisexual.
2007-03-02 00:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you mean "Why do gay guys do it in the butt and they CAN'T do that to a girl?" If that's what you meant, it's because gay guys aren't turned on by girts. That's what makes them gay.
2007-03-05 12:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently there is a glans in the mans butt when they have sex it feels enjoyable i have a friend that's gay and he said he doesn't know how man can go down on a girl because its Gross that's all he said so i guess its up to them why.
2007-03-01 23:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would assume that it's because they're only attracted to other men... women don't "turn them on". I have many gay friends, but I always tell them that I don't want to know about what they do behind closed doors.... I love my friends, but I'm not interested in the sexual details between homosexual men.
2007-03-01 23:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by mrauscher74 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember, there are also many gay men who don't particularly like anal sex. I know quite a few, including myself.
2007-03-02 00:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys switch, some are always the girl and some are always the boy, in your terms.
2007-03-02 00:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jeffrey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never thought about that,thanks for the tip. You are so helpful and talented as well,thanks.
2007-03-02 00:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋