I just found out that my friend has been cuting her self and I think she has death on her mind so i think she might try to camit suiside. she made me swer not to tell anyone she cuts her self, she said it like this "if you tell anyone about what you just saw i'll kill myself." I fear that she might do it even if i don't tell, I just don't know what to do.
2007-03-01 15:37:52 · 7 answers · asked by Baby_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honey Listen I am a 35 year old woman that still can't live down the fact that I knew a friend of mine in high school was in trouble like your friend is and I didn't know what to do and I didn't want to loose her friendship so I didn't tell. Well needless to say my friend ended up killing herself she was my bestfriend and I didn't do anything to stop her and she was gone and for years even now I still blame myself for not telling someone. If she said she won't be your friend anymore believe me when I tell you if you don't tell someone she really won't be because she won't be around to be anyones friend.
I know it's hard to tell so this is what I would do if I could do it again I would tell my parents and tell them to say they read it in my diary or write it in a diary and give it to them to read that way you can say that you didn't tell they just found it. I know it's not right to lie either but to save a life I am sure you parents and hers will understand!
2007-03-01 16:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by mkl2571 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not hesitate to discuss this with her family, ensure that the problem gets solved.
Try to know the reason for her act and explain her that problem won't end by committing suicide.
2007-03-01 17:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her mom to take her to some phsychatrist. i now after that may be will not speak to u, but u r doing this for her gud one day she will realize it. n keep some distance urself too as if she will do something for her, they can grab u tooas u knew it. ur family will not like it n u will be in the problem.
take care of urself too.
2007-03-01 18:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by sanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her mom cuz if you dont,
imagine this: what if one day shes sick of it all and cuts her self and DIES
what would you feel, u'd feel guilty cuz U KNOW u could have done sumthin to prevent this 4m happenin
2007-03-01 16:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out why she is cutting herself and u can e-mail me about it. i will help you with the rest.
2007-03-01 16:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by melissa c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find hr problem & try to talk her out of it
2007-03-01 18:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by deepu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen... this is a serious issue.. better tell her mom... n let her not tel that you informed about this... ok.. make it soon... you better not be late...
2007-03-01 16:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋