Ok... i have this guy friend that likes me. He tried to kiss my aready. He called me to get together over the weekend and I told him I might be busy and to call me back. Then I lost my phone over the weekend. I got it back and he had left messages asking to get together. Then a few days later he sends me an email telling me I'm immature and inconsiderate for not returning his calls.
I tell him what happened. Then he tells me I'm still inconsiderate and to stop playing mind games. Should I of called him when I got my phone back? Who is wrong here?
2007-03-01 15:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by Eva L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he's wrong.
forget about him.
he doesnt believe you and does any girl really wanna date a guy who doesnt trust them?
hes the inconsiderate for not trying to understand or believe in what your telling him.
2007-03-01 15:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by polygirrrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you were for sure he was going to call, you could have called him from a land line, and saved the trouble. Said.."Hey, I've lost my cell phone, you mentioned the other day that you may call...so just incase you don't get ahold of me...thats why." Or..."Here, if you want to get together this weekend, call me at this number $%%$$, I've lost my cell phone."
Communication doesn't have to be as hard as some people make it.....
So..I say, your both wrong. Sounds like he's been burned a time or two, and is taking out his frustrations on you with it. And yes, the minute you got your phone back and heard the messages, you should have called him.
2007-03-01 23:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you are being inconsiderate. The fact that you didn't call him back shows that you aren't that intrested in him. Otherwise you would have found a way to get in contact with him, and tell him you lost your phone. I don't think it matters who is wrong here, i think its merely whether you like him or not. If he is going to call you immature over not being able to get in contact with him, i think he is the immature 1
2007-03-01 23:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. He overreacted and he reacted too soon. Get rid of this one and find someone who doesn't jump the gun. Imagine if there is really something for him to be mad at? Your life may be in danger. LOL
2007-03-01 23:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should have called him, just out of courtesy but i think he's over reacting. You've apologised and that's all you can do, the rest is up to him.
2007-03-01 23:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should of called him from another phone like home and explained the situation so he doesn't think your giving him the cold shoulder
2007-03-01 23:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you described him he sounds like a freaky creep. yup that about sums it up. he is wishy washy..and just tell him you lost your phone and if you plan on getting with him i wouldnt because he sounds "immature"
2007-03-01 23:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may b u should have called him after u got ur phone, but after u told him what had happened he should have understood
2007-03-01 23:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by 17227 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U THINK HE IS GOOD THEN CALL HIM
BY THE WAY HERE BOTH OF U AND ALSO THE SITUATION IS WRONG
2007-03-01 23:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have called him from your house phone.
2007-03-01 23:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋