I have been married to my wife for ten years and have had a really great sex life with my wife. Recently her need to experiment sexually has grown. Normally we just communicate and talk and have “Dirty Sex” and talk to each other about having sex with other people but that has grown. We have started having sex with a couple we know on a regular basis. This isn’t the problem. She wants to take this even further and start having sex with strangers and me to find strange women ect. Her need to push sexual boundaries is growing at a high rate of speed and we both have agreed that this behavior is not healthy. During the course of our ten years of Marriage she says she has felt this way but has managed to stay faithful but has since only been able to communicate to me her real desires. Now I know what half of you are thinking, she was probably molested. She swears up and down she was not. She was how ever promiscuous during High School, and lived with just her mother. If there are any psychiatrist out there or anyone who thinks they can offer me an educated opinion please I’m listening.
2007-03-01 15:34:48 · 7 answers · asked by Tiger 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
she sounds like a total free spirt. & a total nympho. sounds like she doesnt just like the rush her body feels but likes the rush her "mind" goes through & she likes to share that enjoyment with others...even if their a little reluctant to experiance it. Not that this is bad but if you feel unconfortable with it you need to speek with her about it...even if its just good clean fun her problem might not be the "sex" it might be control. At the same time she might not be concious of the fact that she isnt able to control the feelings that she gets when she pushes it to the limit. & the control that she gets to excert over you by haveing you particapate in the experiences.....so maybe you could do other things toghter that you enjoy....throw rocks at the ducks( local geese are not alowed to be feed in the area park) or shoot fireworks at ground squrils...two of my favorite activitis :)~
2007-03-01 15:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by greckel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like, uh, duh, because she is a woman?
go here: http://www.thestranger.com/savage. Read. Explore. Have Fun. Don't be an asshole. Find her some sexy friends.
Easier yet. Let her pick 'em out of a crowd. I am sure she knows what she likes/wants ... needs(?)
It is interesting how you capitalize Marriage. You would be better off capitalizing "Really Great Sex Life" ... and live and let live.
2007-03-01 23:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by michaelv247 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both need to go into therapy if you want to save your marriage. Tis behavior is self-destructive. Get help.
2007-03-01 23:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she really agree, or is she agreeing to please you?
It could be she realized that she REALLY enjoys what you 2 have started doing and now wants to explore other boundaries
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2007-03-01 23:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by mcdermond3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure she's not cheating on you or would you give her any reasons for her to think you are cheating on her? The age thing as nothing to do with it.
2007-03-01 23:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Yvonne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that will split up your marriage..I knew two people that were definately in LOVE...they started having an OPEN marriage...now they are divorced...sadly...you cannot share such personal things...it is sacred...
2007-03-01 23:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds interesting...u have my fone # ??
2007-03-01 23:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋