i.e. My new guy friend. Sometimes, I think he's really not feeling me. Then sometimes, I think he's holding back - scared that he may say something that will offend me. For instance he called me when he got off of work on tuesdat. He was very tired. He said that his company worked him very hard from 7:30am - 2:15pm. He gets off @ 3. So he asked me what time do I get off? and I told him 6 and it was like a pause. Like he wanted to ask me to stop by after work. I was going to say, why whats up? but chickened out too. I think we're both scared. He and my friend's fiance works together and he told my friend to tell me to call him and she sent his # through email. We were at work. I was questioning her about him. At the time I was more curious then anything.
2007-03-01 15:01:15 · 2 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Ask him. Beating around the bush only catches lost and confused birds. You want the bird that knows what it's doing. Just talk straight. Scared or not he'll probably be caught off guard if you tell him you'd like to know him better and find out when you can connect for a date of some kind.
2007-03-01 15:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure about his intentions, back off for a while and see how things play themselves out. You are having these feelings for a reason. Give things time to see what's really going on with him. Don't rush into anything. Time will tell. Wait and see. Waiting isn't going to hurt anything. If he says anything, just say you've been so busy. You'll find out when the time is right.
2007-03-01 23:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋