im not sure what to do.....?

Question

ok i really like this kid and weve been planning on me giveing him head for awhile. tomorrow might be the day and i would be his first. luckly ive done it before so i wont be bad. but wouldent it be wrong if he dident like me?? or could it be that he actually might i jsut dont know it yet?? casue so far hes felt my boobs and thats it. but i dont think its much of a sign or a relationship taken to the next step.
so my question is: would it be the wrong thing to do, even if i have strong feelings for the guy??

Answer 1

Yes, *I* feel that it is the wrong thing to do even if you like the guy. You know, if he really likes you back, he would never ask you to do that Why are you even considering doing this when you have so many unanswered questions about him? Ofcourse, if you are willing to perform such acts for a guy, he would be more than happy to accept. Don't do it because you like him. Don't do it if you have strong feelings for him. You shouldn't even do it even if you LOVE him because if you love him, you should respect his body. From what you've described for the things he's done to your body (like feeling on your breasts), I feel like he only treats you as a toy. I feel like he only treats you as a thing to get him aroused. You must understand that boys around your age are just entering puberty, and they are extremely curious about all sorts of things when it comes to a girl's anatomy. It seems like you have more feelings for him, and you are willing to do this so that he would like you. Isn't that such a poor excuse just to keep or get with a guy? Colleen, the only advice that I have for you is to NOT do it.

Guys at that age tend to brag if they get something like that. How would that make you look as a girl if the whole school knew that? You are going to get bad names stamped to your image, and I promise that it is going to stay with you forever all through high school and sometimes into college. How would your parents feel if they find out that their 13 year old daughter did such a thing through people bad-mouthing you? Just don't do it.

I am not trying to be bitter towards you. I am just trying to make sure that you don't make a mistake. 13 years old is WAY too young to be doing things sexually. I am in my second year of college, and I have seen both guys and girls use too many of my friends for sexual favors. It makes me sick when my friends keep putting thelselves in those situations. You know, I have broken up with SO many boys throughout high school and some in college because they were pressuring me to mess around with them. I do know that once you've started messing around, it's hard to stop. My friends in college are a PERFECT walking example of it every single day. They have degraded the value of being a man or a woman and have turned into a toy. So many people I know have regreted doing suff like this. Remember that it may start out as "messing around," but one day you are going to give in and go all the way because everything seems so "right."

You know, it's hard for 90% of my collegues to be able to proudly stand up and say that they're still a virgin. It's so easy to give it away. Imagine how proud you are of yourself if you can walk around campus at the age of 20 knowing that you are better than 90% of the people on campus because you still have ONE thing they don't.

I get that self-satisfaction every day.

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Best wishes to you. Sorry this is longer than I planned on writting.
xoxo

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