3 weeks ago my girlfriend out of the blue, stopped speaking to me and went away for a week without telling me. After she returned she told me she needed a break from her work and that is why she left. But keep in mind for that week she never tried to contact me and we always talked everyday before this. We talked and worked things out and were getting alone great. She tells me again she needs a break from her job and promised me she would tell me if she decided to go away (out of town). Well, it's been 4 days and I have not heard anything from her. I have so many bad ideas about the situation going through my head and I don't know what to think. Anyone have any suggestion about why she would do it again? We have been together 2 years and her last words to me were how much she loves me and i'm her everything.
2007-03-01 14:30:32 · 7 answers · asked by trj25822 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe she decided to become straight
2007-03-01 14:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't think it matters whether you are a lesbian or not, this has happened to me and I'm heterosexual. Some people lie, some people don't know how to say it's over, some people need time alone, and the biggest thing is some people can't communicate. I hope it works out for you, but since she has done this twice, I think you can't put up with it again. Just my opinion.
2007-03-01 14:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something doesn't seem right here.. blowing off work and blowing off you are two different things.. i don't see any reason for her to avoid you if she is having work progblems. if anything, you'd think she'd run to you for help, support, and encouragement as she deals with work issues..
if she is out of town like this, i can only speculate, but perhaps she has someone else in her life she doesn't want to tell you about..
2007-03-01 14:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well i dunno.. i know how hard it is to let go.. trust me.. but maybe its for the better i dont think she really cares as much as she says if she needs to leave u and not even call for days..thats just not normal for any serious relationship..i know you dont want to hear this but shes probably doing what i know your praying shes not..but dont give up hope because theres someone else out there that will love you more than you can imagine...im waiting to meet her too! :) my ex gf left me after 2yrs and it was horrible but i made it threw and so cant you *hugs*
2007-03-01 19:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by lonely heart club 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to throw away 3 years with the lady you "love" for somebody you met on the internet? think of roughly it, 3 years is an prolonged time. you utilize love many cases on your question, do you rather understand what love is?
2016-12-18 03:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by binford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you putting up with this?? In a relationship you have rights as well...It appears to me that your rights aren't being met.
2007-03-01 15:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her some space and she'll come around.
2007-03-01 14:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by nancy_biri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋