I had an affair with a guy at work and left my husband. We where married for 12 years and have two small kids. My husband was a good guy its just that he was boring and only had two friends. Its been 3 months since he divorced me. I love my new man and the sex is the best! All together I've been with him for 4 months. How long do you give my new relationship? p.s. its mostly sex.
2007-03-01 14:20:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not long. What goes around comes around. And sex isnt everything.
2007-03-01 14:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something based on sex is not the best option. I think that you made a huge mistake by leaving your husband for this guy. Did you stop for a moment and think that this guy could only be with you for sex? This guy could only be in this with you for what you give to him. Look you really hurt your husband and your kids and for that there could be a good chance that you would be repaid the favor. You just wanted some excitement but you really didn't have to go that far into it. I know that in your heart you feel it too the mistake that you made and I also think that you don't really love this guy but you are trying to convince yourself that you do. Do what is right if its not too late to correct the wrong.
2007-03-01 22:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you find the sex boring....like you did with your husband of 12 years....or he finds you boring. You really need to grow up. I would have thought that someone who was married for 12 years would be more mature than a 12 year old. Oh well enjoy it while it lasts.....I do hope your husband has the kids so they don't end up like you are.
2007-03-01 22:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months based on my case. My husband cheated me to have an affair with new and younger woman. He said that he loved her. But 4 months after he started cheating, he is bored by this girl because he discovered many bad and unsuitable charasteristics from her.
2007-03-01 22:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by MIB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you left your husband for sex, I say the chance is good you will do the same to him.
How does it feel to burn the bridge on both ends?
How does your conscience do when you know you didn't keep vows in front of friends and God?
2007-03-01 22:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope not long since you didnt have the courage to leave him before you started a new relationship. What a lousy thing to do. I hope your new man is as faithful to you as you were to your husband. And to top it off you don't express any guilt or shame, what a louse.
2007-03-01 22:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by theanswerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it your new love or your new lust? think about if that new man gives you that 'comfortable family' feel that you experienced in the beginning w/your husband. when you say "p.s. its mostly sex" that tips off that it doesnt mean much more. true?
2007-03-01 22:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by har 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I don't know....another 6 months. Maybe...
2007-03-01 22:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, but you really made yourself look bad here!
2007-03-01 22:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋