I met my current boyfriend in a chat room, now he is becoming increasingly jealous that i still chat in them. I have made some really good friends both male and female in these rooms and i dont see why i should it up, am i being inconsiderate?
2007-03-01 14:04:14 · 13 answers · asked by claire d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you should probably be chatting with your boyfriend and not your virtual friends. I can see why he'd be worried about it. I mean that's how you met him and it's possible that you could meet someone else that you'd be interested in. If it's not that big of a deal to you and you really want to show him you love him, give it up. :)
2007-03-01 14:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No u arent. Though u should be careful in the chat rooms. And maybe u should spend a little time with him. Talk about movies or about both of u. some boys can can jealous of guys u hang out with. It just shows that he cares about u.
2007-03-01 14:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you're committed. But let's cut it down to the real problem/ the core perhaps- The real problem is that, he's concerned that some of the strangers in the chat rooms that you enter, are flirtacius single (or not) men. And he's concerned that you will eventually leave him, for one of those men. And being that you met him in a chat room, it's undersandable that he feels that way. He wants to be the only man, you love.
2007-03-01 14:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, I am currently going through this same thing just it's him not me.. I think because of what society has done with our heads and lead us to believe that chat rooms are only about sex and being flirty that almost anyone at one time or another will feel how he feels and myself. But the thing we both have to remember is that if we are happy with ourselves and in our relationships then it shouldn't be a big deal.
Sounds like your bf may have a case of the jealousy blues =( ..
He needs to recover his self worth and realize, it's just talk nothing more.
2007-03-01 14:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kristi in Nevada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine to talk ing chat rooms, your boyfriend is just jealous because he's scared to lose you. Just let him know that he's the only one for you at the moment and have him cool it. Why should you give up your life for him? Best of Luck!! :)
2007-03-01 14:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not being inconsiderate. It's not wrong to still talk in chatrooms. I chat in chatrooms and I made some friends.
2007-03-01 14:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by nancy_biri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as everything you talk about is innocent then you shouldn't feel guilty about it. let him seat with you while you chat to show him your doing nothing wrong. If he acts weird about it maybe he has a guilty mind about something.
2007-03-01 14:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he of all people should understand why you like the chat room. Maybe he's insecure about ya'lls relationship because he has something to hide himself. I know I'm always suspicious of my fiance doing something that I could picture myself also doing. Confront him about it, and if he gets defensive then you know your answer.
2007-03-01 14:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your current time ratio for your bf and your chat room friends is like 1:1...make it into something like 10:1 for your bf i guess...so you spend more time with him so he can't complain =)
2007-03-03 10:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by ChristopheraX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's afraid you'll find some one else. I mean, after all, it is how HE met you.
Give him some attention, spread the love.
2007-03-01 14:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋