2007-03-01 13:59:37 · 17 answers · asked by lala 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Born gay.
Thanks for asking this seldom asked question.
2007-03-01 14:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by castle h 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion and experience, being gay is something that people are born to. It is ultimately a question of who you "like" and so is something that you cannot help or change. This is true whether you are gay, straight, bi-sexual, or anything else, really. And most people wouldn't want to. It is an individual choice, that can lead you into a community of others who feel just about the same, generally. As far as it happening over time....usually what takes time is coming to and accepting who it is, whoever it might be. Again this is the same whether you are gay or anything else.
2007-03-01 14:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by earthcaress 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are people born straight or do they make themselves straight over time? That's the question I have to ask in response to your question. In order to chose to be gay, one must be attracted to both males and females, or else there is no option to chose from. Speaking for myself, I have never in my life been romantically, sexually, or in any other way attracted to females, but I did know as early as four years old that I was attracted to males. Just being around them made my heart skip a beat.
It is true that some heterosexual males have had sex with other males, and some homosexual males have had sex with females. This will never change their true sexual identity any more than a right handed person using his left hand will make him left handed. You can join an ex-gay cult and brainwash yourself into believing that you are straight and even end up marrying the oppoiste gender and having children. These people usually end up very miserable in life when they realize that they simply cannot keep up the charade any more. You can only fool yourself for so long before your soul starts to rebel against the falsehood you've subjected yourself to. If a heterosexual man has sex with men, and then returns to his true heterosexual identity, he has not become "ex-gay" because he was never gay to begin with. All he did was to pervert his nature. But just like heterosexuals, each gay people realizes that they are gay at different point of their life - some at young age, some at puberty, and some later on. You don't really realize your sexual identity until the time when the issues of love, affection, romance and sex become a focus in your life, which is usually in the early teenage years.
-Rev. Jim Cunningham
King James Bible Ministry
www.GayChristianSurvivors.com
2007-03-01 15:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by kjv_gods_word 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think they are born gay but some just fight it until they come out of the closet. On the other hand , it could be like Brokeback Mountain and kind be made to be gay. My answer, be yourself either way . I'm a homophobic and that is hard for me to accept .
2007-03-04 18:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by westhighland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have confidence me and God, persons are no longer born gay. They ar in self denial. The gay acquaintances on the APA say that homosexuality is a made from environment, cognitive, and organic and organic impacts. For all of you puzzled gays, organic and organic could recommend illnesses, hormones, and parasitic issues that impression people and those are stimulated by skill of our environment and that's determination. No gay chooses to get AIDS, even nevertheless it replaced into their option to no longer use a condom or to proportion needles with some guy or woman who had gay anal intercourse.
2016-09-30 02:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by gazdecki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only answer with this, I born gay, even if ppl think not but i know myself, i been with girls before been with male, and i have a friend who got an accidente he got in comma he forgat everything about him, his family, friends and everything and guess what he got turned on by male without no one telling him anything so he is gay naturally, no one told him about him been gay but he fall for a man even when his mind was suppost to be blank
2007-03-01 14:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by F. G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are elements of both, but more biological. If it was a
choice, everyone would be gay, wouldn't they?
Seriously, what the *(*&&!! difference does it make?
They are gay and they are human beings. It's natures way
of balancing life and Mother Nature's attempt to stop overpopulation.
There are lots of documnented cases of animals having same
sex relationships....and if you buy the b.s. fundamentalists
quote, then these poor animals were SEDUCED by the evil gay
lifestyle. (I can't tell how how many times I've seen gay penguins at the local bars!) PUHL-LEAZE!
2007-03-01 14:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off....How does someone straight know what it's like to be gay? hmmm mucho confusiono thereo!!! That's not real spanish btw. I was being random. Well. Mucho is..anywho. Depends. Some can't help it. Some can. AKA Born. Not Born.
Its been proven.
2007-03-01 14:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Me..................... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
though imo no one has yet to prove whether sexuality is something that one is born with, what is imo a fact is that NO ONE chooses to be gay/lesbian, why would you when the community seems to be so much more accepting of heterosexuals? gays/lesbians whatever are still humans who were made in the image of God and its not our job to judge them for choices that they did not necessarily make.
2007-03-01 14:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by knowerofallthings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not born like that. It is just where they are attracted towards.
People are just born like magnets. If they get attracted to opposite pole then they are natural and straight but if they get attracted to the same pole then they are not normal and there are names for it.
2007-03-01 16:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like asking....
Are some people born with lower mentality or I.Q.'s than others or do they just make themselves dumber over time?
2007-03-01 17:30:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋