and start focusing more on my school work?
2007-03-01 13:57:38 · 22 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't do anything, don't go online and chat. You are vulnerable to guy friends or whoever you talk to. Come from school, go straight to work. Only focus on your teachers, don't talk to guys...
2007-03-01 14:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, the good old "raging-hormone-boy-crazy-teenage-girl" phase. Basically, you body is saying: "you need to get pregnant right now, or else!"
Unfortunately, your body is stupid. You need to start listening to your brain instead.
Now, boys can be a lot of fun to hang out with. But I think it is pretty safe to say that all boys your age are idiots. They have absolutely no idea what the words: "relationship", "intimacy", "commitment", and "responsibility" mean. Try asking them about these words, watch the wheels turn in their heads... you are never going to get a straight answer.....
The only advice I think I can give, is just get your priorities straight. Always remember that school has to come first, and "hanging out", second.
Be careful, and smart, and don't start dating seriously until you intend to have a long term relationship, get married, or start a family. Don't get into a serious relationship, until you are 100% sure you can trust the guy, and you are sure that what you are doing is what is best for you.
I'm not saying you need to be paranoid, or be a "guy hater", there is nothing wrong with enjoying the company of men. Just don't get yourself in so deep, that you cant get back out again.
Good luck, keep studying hard!
~Donkey Hotei
2007-03-04 06:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by WOMBAT, Manliness Expert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you are focusing on boys because you want to date one, right. dating is a part of selecting a marriage mate. if this is the way you start seeing dating, you will quickly refocus yourself on your school work because you now see that to be a good wife and, possibly a mother someday, you will need a good education. There are also subjects in school geared to help you become a mature adult, able to take on the responsibilities of marriage and parenthood.
2007-03-03 10:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I swear I had the same exact problem! This may seem strange but they only way I didn't focus on boys was to be distracted by something else. I started drawing a little in class and by doing that I was able to listen to the teacher and not daydream about guys.
2007-03-01 14:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 02:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by gazdecki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's a viable option, transfer to an all-girls' school. Some evidence shows that such an environment is better for girls' development anyway, and I'm sure you're parents would be thrilled to send you if you told them you wanted to focus on your studies. Ask your father. I guarentee he'll jump at the opportunity to get you away from boys.
2007-03-05 09:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by Ranavain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe get one of the senior boys to coach u in your school work so that way u can have your cake & eat it as well giving u a broader focus ( or should I say a bi focal).
2007-03-01 14:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by pinu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it like i do:
if u do school work (and not flirt) you will get to a good college
u will get a high paying job
u will have money and then you will be able to flirt as much as you want!!! instead of being pregnant in high school and living in a shack!!
2007-03-01 14:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys come in the mid, like them but don't put them before your schoolwork. I shouldn't be talking, but im in the same pickle as you. Good luck!
2007-03-01 14:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by Alexis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what u could do is hypnotize yourself
like whenever you think of a cute boy in class or at home then picture them as sumthin ugly it really works
2007-03-01 14:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by baby girl#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋