Sure there are good men out there that aren't gay -- and they are trying to find you as well. You might find each other in church, or the laundry mat or in the super-market. The point being if you are in the house and he is too how will you ever meet. Just remember one day at a time -- and do not let your focus be on any guy -- trust that it will happen soon. and to prove my point -- I can't meet you if I continue to sit here and hide behind this computer and you looking for answers -- get up and get out and have fun for yourself and be discovered by your guy to be.
2007-03-01 13:46:04
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answered by Quest 2
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What do u mean by "good old fashioned?" Do u mean the guy that pulls out chairs and lets u enter the room first? Opens doors? Is that what u want? Then u must want the guy who expects to be the "head of household/provider for the family, right? Maybe that is what u want. So that means that u r a woman who doesn't want to work but instead wants to take care of the home and raise the children while being support for your man rather than his partner, right?
Realistically, there are guys who still pull out chairs and all of those other things just like there are women who still cook and clean. The thing is that they r not expected to do those things just because someone believes that they are the responsibility of men or women. We r equal and men and women should do all of those things for each other. There is a saying, "don't expect of others what u don't expect of yourself." I think that this is good guidance for relationships. U shouldn't expect your guy to do things for u that u wouldn't do for him. Yes there r good men (and women). It's just that what "good" means is not based on gender roles anymore it's based on the qualities of individuals.
2007-03-01 13:45:19
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answered by Vince R 5
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Among the many virtues that make up a good woman, is patience. It's time to use it and you will find your man. You won't however, find him lurking in a bar, or singles clubs. you'll most likely find him doing whatever it is that he likes doing best. So the trick is, to go do what you like to do best, and who knows, he might be there. The other thing that is important if you want a man of integrety, is to not have any preconceved ideas of what you want him to look like, go for personality, great looks are just the icing on the cake.
2007-03-01 13:48:46
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answered by al b 5
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Yes, there r! Just be patient & keep lookin'. Remember, u can't tell a book by its cover; date a guy a couple times, if he isn't what u're lookin' for, dump him & try again. It may take some time, but don't give up, the 1 u're lookin' for is out there. Just don't get discouraged & settle for someone u really don't want. lol
2007-03-01 13:47:50
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answered by louise b 2
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i hate to be the realist here, but most over the age of 25 are married or gay, or something is really wrong with them! and if you are over 40- wow- not many there at all
2007-03-01 13:53:11
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answered by bronzebabekentucky 7
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yes they are out there....maybe you are looking in the wrong placees? Or maybe you are looking too hard....relax, it will happen eventually....or make it happen, join groups in which you think old fashioned good moral guys would join....
2007-03-01 13:45:43
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answered by reddevilbloodymary 6
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yes there are , just have faith , stop looking , and than you will find him when you least expect it. everything happens for a reason, and every meeting is for a reason too.
2007-03-01 13:39:34
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answered by Tellie 4
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3 billion people on the earth are men. You tell me.
2007-03-01 14:00:50
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answered by Anonymous
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I want to know about you
please check my profile and I am so alone now I need to have realy lovey women to get serious relationship and to love
2007-03-04 20:16:45
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answered by ovelik 1
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nope sorry....
2007-03-01 13:39:30
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answered by skibabie12 2
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