ok well whenever my friend and i get in these stupid fights i'm not blaming all of them on her but honestly most of them are her fault...but whenever we do get in fights when it's all her fault she has this way of turning it on me and making it sound like i'm the bad person and when i say sorry she never says it too...and this one time when i kept saying sorry (and the fight was all her fault) she just said you say sorry alot and that says something... and i said that mean si have a forgiving heart and she said no you just do everything wrong...but people tell me to dumo her as a friend but i can't we've been friends for so long and i really can't see her not as my best friend so what shoudl i do? please help me!!!
2007-03-01 13:21:16 · 4 answers · asked by Izzy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everybody has flaws, it sounds like your friend has her share. You can either accept them and let it go and be the bigger person who says sorry, or you can break up with her....but you can't change her.
Anyhow, people who can't admit they are wrong are very insecure and don't know how to cope with the mistakes they make so they pretend that they never make mistakes. So it's not that she really thinks you are always wrong, it's that she can't ever admit that she is ever wrong.
2007-03-01 13:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who thinks they're right all the time is automatically wrong and self centered...that's dangerous for you.
Anyone who constantly says they're sorry when they didn't do something wrong has self image issues...get help.
It's admirable to admit you're sorry when you've trespassed in some way, but don't offer it because you are trying to placate someone else's ego. Adults have discussions, not shouting matches, to sort out disagreements...if your friend isn't mature enough to see beyond herself, get out of that relationship fast before you get hurt. ( I love Dr. Laura Schlessinger's books on relationships...check them out)
Time makes a person an older child unless that person learns from their mistakes and/or from others examples. Time won't mature people, only fruit and wine ;o)
2007-03-01 13:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sublime_Savvy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people have a hard time saying I am sorry,as a result thy try turning it on you,or anybody else thy can...........
.....How to Handel this is not so easy, but tray talking to her the next day when the fight is over or when the time seems right .........when things are A..O..K.....good luck....Mel.......
2007-03-01 13:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Melvin S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself "do i really need her as a friend?" dump her she doesnt deserve you as a friend, or you can just start not hanging out with her so much then she will see she is losing someone that calls her "best friend".
2007-03-01 13:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by City Life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋