Theres this girl at my school i like and i dont know how to tell her i like her considering im attracted to women and i dont know if she is. So im so confused if i should ask her or not and if i do how and when should i ask her. This is not a crush either i've known her since grade 4 and we've been best friends ever since we first met. I am worried that if i ask her it will destroy our precious friendship.
2007-03-01 13:11:07 · 11 answers · asked by Darcye girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I can not say for sure,howevere if I were in your shoes I would test the water first.
heres what I mean.
take her to a computer and go to this website www.thehun.net
it is pornography (so please dont go if you dont wish) mostly by amaaateurs, and its free for the most part.
it has everything under the sun.
I would go there with her present ( and be like omg look at this)
and view some of the female with female photos and get her un biased opinion.
you mite just be able to kill 2 birds with 1 stone.
I wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-03-01 13:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by davegarkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now understand I'm a straight guy, but also understand I may not be wrong bcause I'm a GUY. The quickest way to destroy your friendship would be to blurt out you little secret. The worst way would be for her to find out by seeing you kiss a girl. If you have any mutual openly lesbian friends (agian, understand this is not soemthing I'm an expert at), perhaps you should all get together and reveal the big secret to her together. If she is comfrotable, them ask her out. If not, help her to understand you will not come onto her again and not try to force her into anything she doesn't want. Assure her you will always be the person she met in fourth grade--lesbian, bi-sexual or straight--and her friend first.
2007-03-01 21:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by James H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oki..Well i don't wonna comment to this but i will....My sister is Bi-Sexual something like that and she has this friend she think is hot.They been friends since they been 3 years old and she is 15 now..Well She asked me to help her i go i am not really good @ an girl on girl actuion and i told her just to randomly come out and say to you ever have the erdge your attcrated to women and she will answer you can see it all in her eye's and if she dont comment real fast say well i promise i wont tell anyone you kno me..An if she say's yes then u kno, but if she asks you the same question say i dont wonna ruion out friendship , but i amnot gonna lie i like girl's ,but if you don't then i understand and i wont hiton you we can act like this never happened...
I hope i could help..
2007-03-01 21:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Country Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course tell her and then say i don't want to destroy our friendship can you please at least go out on a date with me because i really really like you and i want to see if we have something more than a friendship oh ya and ask her if she likes lesbians and if she would consider being one in the future
2007-03-01 21:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time was with my best friend from 5th grade. She arranged a girls nite and we tried on hot clothes (hers) for each other. It just happens. First of all, be her friend.
2007-03-01 21:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask your girl on a date.if the date goes well ask her on another one take her to a fancy restaurant if that date goes well ask her if she says yes good for you if she says no try again another time maybe shes not ready ask her on some more dates soon she'll be asking you out
2007-03-01 21:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Alexa S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her her opinion on lesbians. if she disagrees, then it wont work out for a while. if she's ok with it, then tell her. later as thiongs work out ask her out.
2007-03-01 21:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by dark_silence_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u r into girls,then from her reaction u will know
2007-03-01 23:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things sure are different from when I was in school
2007-03-01 21:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO THEN DONT ASK HER BECAUSE IF SHE IS NOT INTO GIRLS THEN YOU CAN PRETY MUCH BET YOUR FRIEND IS OUT OF THERE
2007-03-01 21:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by THE WAR WRENCH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋