the one i love calls me may b once a week at first i thought that he forgot me and i told him that ,but he said "sorry plz dont b upset and try to bear my bad cnditions ...." in the othre side i began to call him less than before i stopped calling him untill he call me first i dont know may b he hadnt enough money to call me it costs him alot may b (he has no job) :( or may b he is stingy, or he isnot loves me any more i cant ask him i dont want to put him in acritical sitiuation . he is abroad
2007-03-01 13:08:06 · 10 answers · asked by dalida 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay...it was kind of hard to understand what you were trying to say....but from what I gather, you're in love with someone overseas who only calls you once a week and who is jobless and living in otherwise poor conditions. I wouldn't bust his balls for only calling you once a week. Overseas phone calls are very expensive, and if he doesn't have a job...$10 a phone call adds up real quick. Maybe you two should try writing letters. That way, it's cheaper...and you can take your time and think about everything you want to say and don't forget anything. Also, they're wonderful keepsakes...and when you're in a long distance relationship, it's nice to have something from your significant other to hold.
Just a thought.
2007-03-01 13:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Katy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is very important in a relationship. If he is abroad, he'll call when he can. Don't wait around for it. Live life and when he calls it will be a nice surprise. If he loves you, it will all come together. Waiting around for the phone to ring makes it sound like you've stopped your life and that your desperate. I hope that you won't think I'm being mean, I just think it sounds like he really was sorry he couldn't call you more often. Good luck girl
2007-03-01 15:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pen, paper and a stamp and write him. Long distance relationships abroad is hard to deal with. Let him know that you will be writing to him constantly and once a month the two of you can have telephone conversations. If he doesn't respond then you know he has moved on.
2007-03-01 13:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't u email him or write him a letter?
Long distance relation ships don't really work out well people change the don't stay the same also since i moved from california my friendship with my friends isn't as first we hardly talk to each other.
2007-03-01 14:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by ~Beautiful~ & ~Gorgeous~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all i know is that that situation sucks. It would seem to me that if he was nuts about you that he'd do whatever it took to talk to you, even if that meant getting another job to pay for his phone calls to you. I'm not sure but he doesn't sound like he's that into you. :( Sorry.
2007-03-01 14:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to handle a long distance romance. Alot could be happening in his life. Its hard to keep alive like that. You cannot push love. If he continues to do this you know what to do..forget him
2007-03-01 13:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a long distance relationship where do both of you stay, you have to give more detail to get a better advice, because it all depends
2007-03-01 14:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, as you said it costs him and maybe he can't afford it..he told you not to worry..just keep e-mailing him or writing to him. however you talk any other time...the phone may not be an option at this time...
2007-03-01 14:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a letter or YOU try calling him
2007-03-01 14:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , you have to check if he is seeing another girl , it is very important to pursue your feeling , you deserve better than him
2007-03-01 15:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by cuttiiee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋