2007-03-01 13:07:48 · 21 answers · asked by bustnloose_2000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just as much right as you do.. but if he has respect for you.. it won't happen. Put your foot down if this is happening to you. You deserve better.
2007-03-01 13:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think that's between the husband & wife. However, in the U.S. there are some states that still have "blue laws" on the books that makes it a crime to commit adultery for either spouse. Most Southern states . . . Georgia comes to mind. That would be a restriction rather than a right.
If both spouses consent, and it's legal from a community or state perspective, than it is totally up to the two whether they want to come & go.
2007-03-01 22:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
reddevilb has a very good point. It isn't about rights. If he comes and goes as he pleases and this does not PLEASE you then there is a problem. Many marriages are in a state of boredom. You and he need to decide weather or not you want to stay together. If you are in love with each other then work on the problem. Try new things. Until you do he will remain bored and continue to come and go. The bottom line is if he is bored then it's very likely that you are too. Work it out or move on.
2007-03-01 21:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by Albatross 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He shouldn't leave all the time. Find what's pulling him away. Ask to go with him. And tell him you don't mind him visiting his friends, but he should make time for you too. It takes awhile for a husband to settle down to family life. I've noticed that most wives tend to stay close to home, and men like to get out in the middle of the excitement. I think this is every woman's complaint! If it don't get settled soon, it'll turn into a bigger issue down the road.
2007-03-01 23:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by sweet southern charm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has no right..divorce his sorry butt if you can't work it out, no one deserves that, he does have the right to have time to himself as you do...but if he has an attitude that he can do whatever he wants..look at the future..it won't be long before he's cheating. I had that happen before..he always said I wasn't going to dictate what he does..well he said that cause he was coming and going as he pleased and sleeping with any woman he wanted as he pleased as well..it's just not a good attitude to have in a marriage
2007-03-01 21:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When two people decide to get married they commit to each other for life. This means they love, honor, and cherish according to the vows that I took. I didn't hear anyone tell me that I didn't have to keep that promise if I got bored????? It sounds to me like the husband didn't have the will to keep his promise and doesn't respect his wife or his marriage. I'd say it's time for the wife to hand her husband his walking papers.
2007-03-01 21:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as both partners are faithful and trust each other, there's nothing wrong with it. On the other hand, if your partner is bored, then maybe you should think about spicing things up a little!
2007-03-01 23:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by lilmizzshell 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The wife doesn't own him so he can come and go as he pleases but by respecting your spouse it would be talked about and then agreed on.
2007-03-01 23:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a grown adult, he has the right to do what he pleases.... As does the wife have the right to refuse to put up with it.
2007-03-01 21:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not about rights...that's gotta be the most selfish thing I've heard. Although, flip side is this....is he bored because you won't go through a little effort for him? Not enough information.
2007-03-01 21:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋