Ok I took advice and it didnt work. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiknoVG0nU1TQIKE.U6UP7vsy6IX?qid=20070301055746AAXJiX9 When I tried to tell her nicely it made it worse and she called me rude when she's always rude to everyone, do you think I should give her another chance to try to make things better?
2007-03-01 13:02:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well your doing everything right, sure you want to keep her as a friend? lol just kidding. I think you definitely should give her another chance, maybe try talking to her personally? Invite her to your house to talk one day, or go somewhere you both are comfortable. Tell her you need to talk because things have been upsetting you. Tell her how you feel, tell her you are just looking out for her. If shes really a good friend she will listen, but she might still get mad. If she does there may be nothing left to do but let her decide her own future for herself. You may want to say something strong, like a really good quote something that will make her feel it. Maybe you could say, "Look, I'm just worried about you... you haven't been the person I knew when I met you. I just hope our friendship isn't breaking." Something along those lines. Just remember people do change, and sometimes you can't change them back no matter how hard you try. I hope you and your friend find a way to reconnect and understand each other again. Good luck and best wishes! 8)
2007-03-01 13:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give it some time because people need chances but you do have to put a limit like say if she doesn't change her attitude in a week then tell her thats it we are not going to be friends.... you can't put up with it forever
2007-03-01 21:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Aracely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to work things out with her but you DO need to address her about the issue, the way she's been acting. If she's hurting people and making them feel bad you need to tell her. If you know her mom knows about the 'My life is so bad' ask if you can take her and show her sround the local shelter (for people).
2007-03-01 21:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by Cerantine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tried! The ball is in her court now. Hang out with other friends...you've already tried. You put out the effort, and you don't like who she is right now. Until she comes around, live your life without her. You have a right to be happy and healthy, and when you are around drama....that's the complete opposite!
2007-03-01 21:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Keep It Sane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called transference. She can't accept responsibility for her own behavior so she accuses you of doing the same thing. Leave her alone and she will most likely figure it out. Good luck.
2007-03-01 23:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You win some, you lose some. If it's worth it to her she will keep calling you and she'll take it to heart. It's normal to get defensive if you feel like you're getting criticized. This will pass and if it doesnt, you'll be better off. Goodluck
2007-03-01 21:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mommyof3 BGB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't give her another chance. You can hang out with other friends.
2007-03-01 22:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by nancy_biri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like you already put your emotions and pride aside and she just stuck her nose up to you! So i would walk away! Honestly you dont need people like that in your life!
2007-03-01 21:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think she would listen and try to make things better. or maybe it's just time to end the friendship. people grow out of each other.
2007-03-01 21:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your original question you said, "I am not having fun hanging out with her"... There is your answer. Why hang out with her at all, if you are not enjoying her company, or the way she is acting?
2007-03-01 21:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋