i know you see alot of words and dont feel like reading them but please do
somthng bad happend between my best friend and i. ive forgiven her i guess but am still a litle sore about it, on the other hand my mother is not so happy about it, and takin it to the extreme by not allowing me to invite her to my birthday.in 26 days. i dont want to have a birthday without her, i also have sevral questionsif you answer any of them that would be great.
1. What do i do about my mother?
2 shuld i really make an effort to get my best friend to my b-day, she hurt me very deeply?
i dont want to have a sleepover, or a hoseparty i was thinking more meet @ a cncert and then hang at my house
3. any ideas for a higschooler's b-day party (not a sleepover/bowling/house party)
I honestly dont think this friend will do anything spcial for my b-day, she just might leave a messege on my phone, if she remebers.
2007-03-01 12:56:51 · 4 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
latley ive been having alot of self doub about myself, ive been feelig "does tis person want to be friends with me?" about EVERYONE i know, it sounds so stupid but i think its jst how im reacting to what my bff did. i feel lame and depressed becuase im turning fifteen and wont have any one who remebers :(
n i am not just being very dramatic this best riend doesnt make any effort to be fiends with me, but i just cant cut her out ofmy life :( :(
im very sad
2007-03-01 13:00:26 · update #1
I know how you feel. I was very sad too when my best friend disapointed me. She even forgot my birthday.
Don't think about revenge, it would only hurt you more.
It's a good thing that you forgive her, and it's understandable that you still feel sore.
1. Tell your mom, you want to be the better person in this, you have forgiven your friend and want to give her a second chance, and you need your mom to understand and support you in this. If your friend doesn't want to come, at least you've tried your best to be friends again.
(even if things doesn't go well with you two after this, in the future you could look back and say I've done what I could. No regrets)
2. Keep in mind, you're doing this not for her, but yourself. If she doesn't think friendship is important as you do, then she's not a good friend. Put her in just friends cathegory. Be friends with others. LOTS of friends. Friends to everyone. Enjoy your live. Don't expect too much from others. Be a good friend to them, if they disapoint you, you'll know it's not your fault. They're the problem, not you.
Be happy :) it's your birthday soon. Happy Birthday in 26 days.
2007-03-01 14:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this friend hurt your feelings than you don't need her around. You can invite your other friends to your birthday party.
2007-03-01 15:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by nancy_biri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she hurt you very badly and you forgive her......wouldnt ur friend status between you two go down to just friends????.......if u dont think ur friend will do anything for ur b-day then you should just not invite her to ur party..........
1.about ur mom.....tell her that u'll invite her but if she doesnt want to come den itz her fault
2. dont stress in getting her to ur party
3. u can go skating........theme park.......concert and den a house party
hope i can help!!!
2007-03-01 13:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by erikkaa2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she hurts you deeply, i know how that feels, does she treat you right? if not, dont invite her, consider this payback revenge.
2007-03-01 13:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by City Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋