i no it is rude to mention ppl's names so there is this girl and she is really mean to me bcuz we used to b bff but then we got in a fite and she hates me. wut wuld u do if this happened to u? how do i get her to stop?
2007-03-01 12:51:18 · 6 answers · asked by angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just ignore her.Don't re=act to anything she says.Try to avoid her if you see her and soon she will get the hint.If it happened to me,i would just move on with my life.She is being immature and needs to grow up.I hope this helps.
2007-03-01 12:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by countrykarebare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be taunting you because she feels guilty about her part in the fight. Don't fuel her fire. If what she says angers you or upsets you, talk to a friend about it, write in a journal, but don't get up in her face. That'll just give her more reason to be mean. However, there may come a time when you'll have to call her to the mat; you have every right to defend yourself. You'll know when, how and if you'll need to do that. Her actions are her problem.
In the meantime, fill your time with people who are kind and encouraging: true friends. Do the things that bring you joy. Remember to be compassionate and loving of yourself if her taunts get you down.
If her taunts don't let up, talk to a teacher, a parent or a guidance counselor for advice.
*I had written eariler that maybe you guys could get together and talk about it, perhaps mend the friendship, but honestly, who wants a friend who is such a b****?*
2007-03-01 13:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but you've probably got a lot of ammo.
Forget polite.
Go for her throat.
Expose her deepest vulnerablities.
She may expose yours, of course.
But often, people reel from this, and back off.
I wish there were another way.
You could hint, first.
You could threaten but not release any info publically...
You've got to stand up for yourself.
Period.
2007-03-01 12:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the some happen to me with my friends ,too. but lately she's not mad at me anymore. well, anyway, if she keeps trying to be mean to you, then ignore her, move on, find some new friends. she'snot worth it.
2007-03-01 12:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by GuitarChik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choke her out!!!!!!
2007-03-01 12:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her..............
2007-03-01 12:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by ninjagal3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋