Here's the problem, I'm really nice and i try really hard. I want ot be friends with some of the popular girls. not just becasue they're popular but even though I'm not popular I'm more like them and i agree with them and so on. I dont really fit in with anyone becasue im not popular or nerdy or emo. somewhere in between "normal" and popular i guess. I cant really do any sports until next year, if my mom wll let me do cheerleading with my friends. or any after school club. at least not this year. so what can i do to be friends with the people i want to be friends with without seeming to desperate? please help.
2007-03-01 12:39:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
making friends is a big challenge for everyone of us. Like in your situation, it is hard to be friends with people with high profile or just simply popular in your place. You just have to be yourself, you dont have to pretend that is not really you. Just try to explore other things that would help you in a way gain friends that are good and not just pretenders. just smile to everyone. feel free to express what you really are.
2007-03-01 15:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by magnificent En 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think No body can make up new character doesn't match his inside, and what ever we try to look different, even if we may succeed for a period of time, at the end we'll find ourselves back again to our nature, otherwise we would feel like strangers in the wrong atmosphereï
2007-03-02 21:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by feelright 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being who you are. And gather your own little groupies who could fit in the 'popular' category. Get the girls' attention. Act similar to them. And wear brand-name clothes (basically, good fashion sense, but brand-name works. hollister, abercrombie, etc.) Get active in clubs which the populars join. Basically, 1) get their attention, 2)be like them so that they'll invite you into their group
2007-03-01 21:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by bookworm11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r kinda like me. i wanted to b popular but soon enough i realized that.. well if im myself then i will get more frends and b popular in a different way. if u cant get popular with the popular girls then b ur self and get good frends the popular people may betray u!
2007-03-01 21:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make small gestures to show that you want to be their friends.
ex. On your way to classes, occasionally chat with them.
or; if you notice they're wearing something new/something you like, compliment them! Everyone likes compliments.
Good luck!
2007-03-01 21:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Alanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can also make friends online. Talk to the ones that you want to be friends with. Ask them if they want to hang out
2007-03-01 23:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by nancy_biri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say to help you other than that I'm having the same problem. I don't seem to fit in anywhere, and it sucks :(
2007-03-01 22:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋