we have been married for 7 years and have 2 kids...she stopped having sex with me for couple of months now because she doesnt have any "passion" for me but still loves me? What should I do? I have my needs..I still love her but what can I do?
2007-03-01 12:38:47 · 2 answers · asked by Angelboy00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1) I doubt very much that talking about it will make her feel passion. So talking about your feelings and blah blah is going to make things worse not better. If you're going to talk, the only things that would be appropriate to say are 'I expect sex in a marriage, or else our marriage is going to end'. Or possibly 'I have no intention of being celibate. I would prefer to have sex with you, but I will do what I have to'.
2) How are you approacher her for sex? Like a sad, hopeless needy wet blanket? Try just having sex with her. She's a big girl, she can say NO if she wants. I've seen some couples where if the guy asks for sex, he gets turned down, but if he just whips himself out or starts undressing her, he gets better results. DOesn't work for everyone, but works for some. I guess some women don't find it all that hot when a guy pleads for sex, but if he just acts confident, she's more in the mood. Try it. If she says no, don't pout, just move on with your day. At that point, not at that moment, but soon after, I'd go back to suggestion 1 here.
2007-03-02 02:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girlfriend.... girlfriend.....girlfriend...... Let her know that some other woman thinks your hot.... or just get a girlfriend and don't tell her. if there are kids you have to stay.... and get a girlfriend...:)
2007-03-02 01:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋