here this job doesn't consider as a well paid job.beside ,he pays me per month $350(In compare) for everything.He has some share for building a hospital but all benefits will be for him.I live in an one bedroom apartment that is in a basement with with very simple old things.I have problem in my feet (varix) that make getting a work difficult.with this new information what's your opinion about the future of my marriage .living as an slave for
him and his family or dive up and left my son,home.this little money and a 12 years old stressful relationship?
2007-03-01 12:26:00 · 6 answers · asked by bookshopfish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What marriage?? So you walk out of a 12 year stressful relationship which took place in Iran, then what?? have 40 stress free ones here living off our state benefits system.. that's great news.
2007-03-01 12:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by richiesown 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think an Iranian man will ever treat you with respect, especially as you grow older. Eventually, he will probably leave you. If your son is old enough, then leave, make a new life for yourself, one that you are proud of. But have a plan, a concrete, realistic plan.
2007-03-01 20:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard, but you have to bear in mind that you are not a slave and should not be treated as one. You should stand up for yourself, if you find that he is threatened by your behaviour then leave him. Women do not need this stupid behaviour from men, they need to grow up.
2007-03-02 05:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably need to leave for your own sake and sanity. Your son may lookk for you when he is older if he wants to. Hard I know. Only you can choose though
2007-03-01 22:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married him and followed him. Deal with the consequences.
2007-03-01 22:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not good
2007-03-05 14:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by jenny cooper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋