plez help!
2007-03-01 11:54:29 · 13 answers · asked by samantha h 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Change out your clothes. You should wear a dress or skirt to school. Nothing slutty or different to your current image. But I suggest to definetly show some leg. More girls will be your friend the more you make friends with guys. Its that "you know him, hook me up" click. And shoes are so crucial. Show your toes. Guys like that believe it or not and it looks trendy too. You shouldn't paint your toes though unless you are already popular. If you can't wear flipflops to school, improvise with someother open-toed shoe with a sling back. If wearing a semi-nice dress or skirt, I suggest stockings as well. Clothes are the most easiest thing you can change about yourself and still make more friends. But none of this will work if you do not walk around with confidence.
2007-03-01 13:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so what u need to do is decide what is the problem....
is it how u look?
how you act?
and is it really that important to be "popular" that you would change yourself
how i look at it is that if you have a good group of friends (or a lot like me :) then you dont need to worry about being with the in crowd
lol well hope i helped
2007-03-01 19:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ...there's no need to change your look or yourself..to be popular..It doesn't make u cool or anything ..by changing yourself to make other ppl enjoy you..It's not the real you. Just be yourself and ppl would notice you. Maybe if you Join Something your interested in ..Or try sitting next to new ppl at lunch..Something that makes you "more involved". Don't try to wear clothes that your not used to wearing or doing things that u shouldn't being doing..IT WON'T MAKE YOU POPULAR. IT MAKES YOU UNCOOL ..W/E ...juss take it easy and remember :"BE YOURSELF"...... good luck...be safe LoL!
2007-03-01 20:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let what others say or do determine who you are. after you graduate you will look back on high school and think how young and dumb u were! i swear! lol so while your there just be yourself, dont change for anyone... and this popularity thing? who cares ... if you think you are a great person well then that's all that matters.
2007-03-01 19:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly, people always judge by other people's looks. Make yourself look hot. dress nice, nice hair. maybe some make up. Be nice, laughy, outspoken at times, funny, and friendly! That way, everyone will like you. Don't give nasty looks. Smile and make your personality shine. I think the face and hair really brings people out. Also, don't wear outdated jeans. =)
2007-03-02 00:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be popular, do the following:
1. it's all about the wardrobe. waist-belts, baby doll dresses, and anything cute like that from Forever21, charlotte russe, kohl’s, Abercrombie and Fitch, and hollister. also, accessories matter, but don't add too many. make sure that accesories always cordinate with your outfit. a flapper vintage red and white top with polka dots = red and white polka dot earrings. babydoll dresses can be worn with waist-belts and jeans and leggings. shoes also are important. brand name designer shoes rock…. but they are totally expensive, so save up for a pair, but focus on the shoes you can afford now. life strides and high heels are great. so are pompon wrap around boots and slip on slipper like shoes. pair up shoes to match the color of outfits. no borwn shoes with a purple top!!!
2. hair counts too. layered stlyes are totally cool, so get the layered look if you don't have it. get it at nirvana hair gallery. also, wearing barrettes with flowers is O-U-T. avoid wearing too much of something all of the time, like headbands with a pony tail everyday. wear cool, original styles like two buns in the back with chopsticks. other cute styles are long, loose curls, not tight Shirley temple kind. side swept bangs are in, so get them too. crimping every other sections of our hair is also a cool style in seventeen magazine.
3. make up is part of popularity as well. take care of your oily or acne infected skin. use ELF shine eraser oil absorbent wipes and Clearasil and clinique face wash to rid of acne or oily skin. wear neutral or medium make up depending on the outfit. clinique and lancome good for blush, eye shadow, and foundation. make sure that you go to the make up counter to get your foundation and blush colors correct. maybeline liquid eyeliner is best, and pencil is not. use cover girl mascara.
4. attitude counts. be your own person and don't beg for a bone from the popular group- show them that you are not a wannabe or a drama queen!!! Hang out with moderately popular kids kids. don't try too hard to be popular, and don't do silly things like talk hysterically, laugh like a hyena, or be mean or dramatic to get attention. be kind to everyone and hanging out with everyone is the way to go.
GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-01 20:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe get a new look. if ya got big glasses switch to contacts. if you got long crazy hair cut it with short layers and side bangs. work on clothes and makeup too. sometimes you just gotta change your appearance a lil and you'll look 10 times better!
2007-03-01 19:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by abbymarie_11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self!! If you try to be cool, you'll just be a wanta be! And let me tell you something, they get in my nerves! If you be your self and you are popular, good but if not its ok! There is nothing wrong about it!
xoxoxo
Alli
2007-03-01 20:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ally4321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try and be more outgoing and try and be friends with as many people as possible. being popular wont happen overnight though. maybe having a party or something. just try and make yourself noticeable (in a good way)
2007-03-01 20:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help how? If you're posting questions like this one I'm guessing you need to work on your confidence. Get involved in a sport or club.
2007-03-01 19:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋