2007-03-01 11:54:05 · 7 answers · asked by musicman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It all depends on how close you are and how strong you two are. =] If you both feel strongly about it, GO FOR IT!
2007-03-01 11:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Odessa Fraser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think so, But make sure you know each other well enough. Take some time and get to know each other habits, likes, dislikes. I think when you find your soul mate that is the most wonderful thing that can happen.
Just make sure that she is your soul mate. Some people think that living together is wrong before you get married. I happen to be one of the people that think it is a good idea.My husband lived together for 2 years before we married and we have been happily married now for 22 years. He is my soul mate. So yes if you are really sure and you really love her and she you. I would say go for it.
Good luck and when the time is right Congrats as well.
2007-03-01 12:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATULATIONS! You didn't say how long you've known each other. If you are truly soul mates, you have no reason to rush into marriage. Save that for when you're ready to have a family. Meanwhile, revel in each other; get to know each other on a mental, physical and spiritual level; and when you are certain you can trust her with your deepest, darkest secret, then you can think about marrying each other.
2007-03-01 15:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by dannykel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage isnt just about love , it involves commitment, responsibilty among the million things. If you are comfortable and100% sure of her then go for it. Just make sure that she's really into you as well, and that both of you have long term goals in life. It's hard to keep a relationship you know.
2007-03-01 12:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by lovelyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait for about three years. If you still feel the same, sit down with her and work out every detail. Finances, in-laws, household chores, children, discipline, sexual expectations. If you can get through that with confidence....... go for it.
Wait awhile before you have children. That will put an heavy strain on an immature relationship.
2007-03-01 12:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not enough. You have to use your mind also for a long term relation ship. How long have you been to gather? Have you had troubles and problems that needed both of you to solve it? What happened? I believe that you know your soul-mate in trouble times, when you need help and support. Test her/him specialy regarding finances.
2007-03-01 12:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by mnk6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been with her more than a year...marry her, if you have not... wait until the butterflies settle in your stomach.
2007-03-01 12:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋