2007-03-01 11:46:23 · 16 answers · asked by injun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who ever said that doing what is in your heart is always the wisest thing? Love is not always about doing what is the wisest thing. Life is too short, do what makes you happy.
Saying that, and I really believe it, I think unless you live what you are going through, no one really knows the answer. You can try to reason your self into or out of any situation you get your self in to, including relationships.
I know there are those who have to "think" logically about everything. No one really knows what is going to happen as you go through life. But, if you are happy and for the most part you feel good when you are with that person, why the hell not. We can search our who life for that "right" person and find ourselves alone at the end and wish we would of took a few more risks along the way. I sure don't want to live my life worry about what other people will think, it is my life and if I am happy for the most part.....why the hell not.
Good luck! I hope it all turns out for the best either way.
2007-03-01 13:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ed T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh...no. I mean if you divorced her once what makes you think that the same problems won't come up again. You guys are probably on auto pilot..everything is "easy" in the sense that you know what each other's into, (i.e. sex, foods, what sets each other off, what each other likes, dislikes, etc) but something obviously didn't work because you would not have divorced in the first place.
2007-03-01 20:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the circumstances that caused u to get the divorce in the first place, and if they have been worked out or not. but if u love her and she loves u than maybe the lesson u both needed to learn has been learned and the problems u once had u won't have again. as long as u learned why there was a divorce, and what t do in the future.
2007-03-01 19:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have known several couples who did this and it has worked out both ways. At lease one of them is still happily married but 2 of the couples are in trouble again.
2007-03-01 20:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on if you love her or not. If so I say why not,but have the problems been resolved that got you divorced the first time. If not I say you need to work that out first!!!!
2007-03-01 19:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not think that would be wise, because they will always be the same.
2007-03-01 19:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by may s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello
perfact!!!!! Especially when she have a child for you.secondily love brought you once again together,i think the relationship will be perfact more than your fist one goodluck on your marriage day.
2007-03-01 19:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on why you left her in the first place
2007-03-01 19:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by MrS.WilSoN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you yrself can forgive and forget why not. As long as you still love her or still in love with her give her a second chance. Why not.
2007-03-01 19:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as the issues that caused the divorce (if there was one) have been dealt with.
Otherwise it may pay off to just go slowly and see where the relationship takes you
2007-03-01 19:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋