Me and my friends have our friendship in the sewer!!!! We are in a HUGE fight and I dunno what to do! :( I have 2 friends that I mainly hang with, and GRRR this is awful! Our friendship is down the drains right now, HORRIBLE! One of them says we should take a break from each other and stuff. :( :( :( :( :( !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I DUNNO!!!!!HELP ME! I NEED HELP!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Should I take the break away from them or keep being in the ridculous circle of fighting?? HELP PLZ!
2007-03-01 11:42:05 · 10 answers · asked by MiMi//Janie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WARNING: This is WAY Dramatic!!
2007-03-01 11:43:25 · update #1
if you think your friendship is in the sewer then you need to take a break or find other friends.
2007-03-01 11:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is WAY DRAMATIC -- then maybe taking a break until everyone involved can cool down a bit isn't a bad idea. I've seen this "break" think work with my own kids (I'm talking about 18 year olds and big time serious drama too). After all was calmed down....they are now again friends. Then just ease back into things.
2007-03-01 19:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever put a friendship down the drains unless they did something that really really hurt you. Try and fix it and ask your friends you hang with to help. I've been in situations like this and you cant let your friend hate you forever or they might convince the Friends you have to hate you. Find out whats wrong and use it for your advantage.
2007-03-01 19:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kate A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, why in the world person say need take brake from eachother and stuff like that I think you should back out of this and see what happen... and I don't know why... I have best friend for long time and we never say each other we neeed break... wow... that really bad and If you think you didn't do anything wrong... then you didn't do anything wrong.. just back off and let them take care of this plm themself... really I don't think you done anything to cause both of your friendship in the drain.
2007-03-01 19:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them, that you want 2 preserve ur friendship with them, but you just need sum times to cool down and recover from that bump. Things like that have happened 2 me, and if that happens, just go on w/ life, and hope for the best! :)
2007-03-01 19:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, sounds dramatic. Well, talk to them about it. Tell them to not make an arguemnet over it, just tell them to listen to what you have to say. Hopefully they'll listen, if not, take a break from them!!!!!!! Its that easy! Me and my friends go threw the same stuff, GOOD LUCK! <3
2007-03-01 19:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by I Am A French Fry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys take a break then you will only grow apart. Make up, just do your part and if they don't want to accept it then let them go.
2007-03-01 19:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by CHICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what you are fighting about? and if it is really bad i would take a brake from each other.
2007-03-01 19:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Tootsie Roll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can, avoid arguement, whenever yelling starts up, just bite your tongue and say (real calmly) "calm down" and if they keep yelling then just keep telling them to calm down, if they never calm down, then you have a problem..... that's the best i can do, sorry
2007-03-01 20:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by BORED 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happend?
2007-03-01 19:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋