last year one of my friends made a big deal about me...i didn't know but my friend then told me about it she said "i thought that U were pretty...but u're not...i mean EWW! hehe" god...she was right! but i hate it when people do that, U don't have to tell me i'm not hot or pretty or whatever,like i don't know it!even when i was a lil kid,like all the kids R cute and all, but i wasn't...when of the girls in my class told me "u're not cute! why?" how the hell would i know?!! i'm a kid for god's sake! anyway when i went home i was crying and my mum heard me, she was like "what's wrong...?" i told her what happend...she said i am cute BLAH BLAH BLAH! I thought she meant it, but she didn't:
(1) SHE'S MY MUM! they always say things like that.
(2) she's one of the people who bring me down, everyday she tell me that i don't look good and stuff like that. When she told me that i didn't care cus i thought she hates me or something but then i started 2 hear it from everyone
whats the point?
2007-03-01 11:38:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We can't all be hot. Get an education or training, work hard, make a shiit load of money, and they will then think you are hot.
2007-03-01 11:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you would say something like that about yourself! EVERYBODY is beautiful and handsome(for the guys) By what I read...you seem like a very cute person, why do i say that? Because you seem nice and thoughtful on the inside, and that's what counts the most. Who cares if your not hot physically? It's what YOU think that counts the most. i gurantee to you that you will find a perfect someone who loves you for all that you are. Try not to put yourself down because of what other people say, that helped me when I was going through that phase. Just remember that Gods creations are beautiful.
2007-03-01 11:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by YYYpunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is very mean! But the part is u dont need them. U could have a degree in somethin somethin instead of listening to other people. People say I'm ugly too! But u might wanna go to a counseller to talk about this. And ur mom doesnt have the right to say that! No offense but u need to tell someone about ur mom putting u down. I know shes ur mom but u could tell someone.
2007-03-01 14:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny honestly though i;d liek to i cant really say how pretty you are cause i;ve never meet you but im sure you are because everyone is pretty in their own way and im sure youve heard that before but i know it to be true and iknow that one day those so called friends will like a guy who you all think is hot and he'll think shes ugly and that your HOTT but i know maybe you dont feel prety maybe you should find something you feel pretyt in cause its aobut what you think not hem most ppl said i was ugly and had not taste but now in highschool i have a feaince and a lot of bi friends who though i was hot and wanted me and a lot of good friends that would have beaten anyone who calle dme ugly up so bad that there dental records wouldnt even identify them so what you need to do if find soemthing you like to where do your hair how you like it and find freinds that actually give a F*** about you im sure that you'll be just fine!
2007-03-01 11:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tank and Trouble 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't care what other people think. Now I know thats easier said than done. But learn to appreciate all the good things you have and whats makes you special, and love yourself (not in a stupid way but just love you for you), and this will definately help you to not care when others drag you down.
Also make sure your mum knows she is driving you crazy by switching from saying you are cute to saying your not, make sure she knows what she is doing to you.
Focus really hard on somehting you are good at, it helps to raise your self esteem.
And anyone who tries to drag you down is uaully because they feel bad about themselves, its sooo stupid but anyone who picks on you is actually doing it because they feel bad about themselves for one reason or another and it makes them feel better to point the attention to soemone else.
2007-03-01 11:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by hippiejane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dnt worry about it, there is sumthing inside us all that shines out and overtakes everything the eye can see. Find it !
and anyway - we all get old n crinkly 1 day if we're luky enuf 2 live that long - im no stunner, but i just look at the things i like about myself - just do that and u shld ask yr mum n friends to do the same for you, dnt let it knock yr confidenc - *
2007-03-01 12:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Claire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents are really strange sometimes.
They think that if they put you down, you'll stand up for yourself and do something about it!
In the case where they think you're not cute, that's pretty jacked for your own parents to say that..Here's a suggestion. Look in the mirror and see yourself for who you are. Admire the traits that make you stand out from others, love yourself. When you love yourself for everything that you are, you'll have better self esteem, and then in the end you'll shine.
2007-03-01 11:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by KKCC1981 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nearly everyone has been called ugly a few times in their life. Don't take it so personally.
How old are you, anyway? When I was younger, I used to be, uh .. not so cute. As a got older, my appearance improved.
2007-03-01 11:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by KristaElizabeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the ugly ones are the ones who make you feel bad....they are the ones with issues...if they do it again, just tell them to take a long look at themselves in the mirror...don't allow anyone to bring you down like that....you are a beautiful person inside and out...don't ever forget that, they are the ugly ones, and i pity your mum with her appalling behaviour towards you, she should be ashamed of herself....get your self esteem back up and show that lot that you don't care...cheer up....
2007-03-01 13:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your best not to worry about it.people who knock other peoples confidence do so because they are not confident themselves,as for your mum,ask her for a quiet word and tell her exactly how you feel,because thats no way a mother should behave towards her child,you sound like a really lovely girl,its whats on the inside that counts!
2007-03-01 11:53:58 · answer #11 · answered by stokies 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋