i'm not thinking of having one but i am curious. we were talking about it today and most people reckon they are always found out. whats your opinion or experience?
2007-03-01 11:28:41 · 32 answers · asked by smurf 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
if it wasn't for the fear of being found out i think more people would be doing it.
its never a good idea tho and yeah i would think most are found out either by tripping yourself up, confessing or getting more daring so that you are found out. some people have affairs for attention and it doesn't matter wether thats from their bit on the side or their partner, friends and family.
2007-03-01 12:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I haven't had one but I know 2 people who have. Both were the husband. 1 got found out due to text messages, and with the other one the other woman fell pregnant. The first case were my sisters friends, and the husband had an affair with the wife's friend, and they are now divorced. The second one was the husband having an affair with a member of a volunteer group he was involved in that the wife wasn't in. They are still married and working through it. The other woman isn't involved in the group anymore.
I think if it goes on long enough, it will eventually get found out. It only takes one slip up. The slip up will eventually happen, no matter how careful they are.
2007-03-01 11:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by mel_johns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a 2 year affair with a married man and didn't get found out. I will say it isn't something I'm proud of, I was going through a tough time, I ended it because the guilt got to me.
2007-03-01 11:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Buffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even contemplate having an affair, I love my hubby far too much to ever cheat on him, I do know several people who have had affairs and for the most part they have always been found out.
2007-03-01 11:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 08:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by scheiber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion. People always get found out. Sometimes quite a few years down the line....
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2007-03-01 11:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by mesmerized 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-03-01 11:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have and it wasnt found out...........yet. But it ended a few years ago so i dont think it will be found out now? It went on for 2 years
2007-03-02 01:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Georgie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had one. I would say maybe 9 out of 10 get found out, maybe more.
2007-03-01 11:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never done that. If I did, with my luck I would get booked for sure. LOL! If you play with fire, you're taking the chance of getting burned.
2007-03-01 11:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋